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Feb 9, 2022 13:01
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There’s a male member at the Chiba branch whose profile says the following:
• The setting fee, which varies depending on the female member’s class, will be paid by me, but you will refund me ¥10,000 when we meet for the first time.
• As stipulated, I will provide ¥5,000–¥10,000 for transportation costs on the first meeting. However, I will also ask you to cover the same amount for my transportation costs.
• From the second meeting onward, I will provide no financial support whatsoever, regardless of what the date involves.
↑ I’m wondering whether this violates the club’s rules.
I’ve seen several men state in their profiles that they don’t want anyone who is only interested in money, but I was honestly shocked to see someone asking women for money.
It makes me wonder whether the men are properly informed about the purpose of the club.
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🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Lol.
There are all kinds of people out there, and you can’t possibly keep track of everything happening at the club.
I think most women would turn this papa down if he approached them, so maybe it’s fine to just leave it alone. If he makes an offer to you, wouldn’t you simply decline it? In fact, you could even look at it as helpful that this has been made public.
If you’re actually being harmed by him, then perhaps you should give the club some feedback.
There are women who misrepresent themselves too, but even if you ask whether they’ve explained the purpose to the club, well…
The club can explain things, but ultimately it comes down to the individual’s intentions and understanding.
So, who knows.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
They probably haven’t read the whole thing, so thank you for letting me know.
Even so, this is really awful.
It seems to lead into the statement that because he’s looking for a relationship more like a romantic one rather than something for adult purposes, the allowance becomes an obstacle...
But having to return the ¥5,000–¥10,000 after paying it according to the rules—isn’t that essentially the same as not paying it at all? If it’s effectively unpaid, I would think that violates the rules.
If the woman simply insists that she won’t return it, does that make it acceptable because technically she was paid? They’re bound to have a serious dispute over it, though, so it still doesn’t sit right.
I probably shouldn’t identify this particular person, since that could cause problems. But when I looked at the feedback for someone like this—strictly speaking, feedback on a similar person—it seems they were proposing ¥1,200 an hour for dinner only and ¥10,000 an hour as the allowance for an adult relationship.
After that, though, it seemed like things were steered in a strange direction, ultimately heading toward no allowance at all.
It’s frightening that someone like this is a member.
If demanding the money paid at the first dinner back is considered essentially the same as not paying, then I’d say it violates the rules. But this seems like a very difficult case.
I’ll contact the relevant department. Still, with the profile left as it is, women probably won’t accept his offers, so I’m not sure which is better: that, or having women go on dates after the wording is deleted, only to be disappointed when they’re offered a low allowance.
It’s a difficult call.
If things remain as they are, the staff can at least say, “Please read his profile carefully. You’re free to decline.”
That might prevent any women from being harmed, which could be a good thing—but I really don’t know which option is better...
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I’m sure the men explain everything during the first meeting—it’s part of their job, after all—but some people really do have such poor comprehension.
Anyone willing to meet this person would be impressive. I wonder if anyone would actually accept his offer.
Marika
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Wait, a man from Chiba is charging women money?
Questioner, why not contact the staff via LINE and discuss it with them instead of posting here?
You haven’t made an offer to this person, have you?
I’m sorry to hear that people like this exist.
I just checked, and there he was (汗). He doesn’t seem to have very good reading comprehension.
☆Mr. Maezawa
He wrote, “Pay for my transportation too, and give me back the 10,000 yen.”
That’s not okay.