I just gave my papa some Valentine’s chocolate. He thanked me when I gave it to him, but as I was leaving, I happened to notice that he had thrown it away—paper bag and all—in the hotel trash can.
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I pretended not to notice, but I was honestly hurt and couldn’t hide it.
He’s been a papa I’ve gotten along well with, and we’ve been seeing each other almost every week for about six months. Do you think I should stop seeing him?
I know it was my mistake to give him something in the first place, but if he couldn’t take it home, I wish he’d at least waited until he was on his way home to throw it away…
He probably only took the contents home, so I think it would be best to ask him, just to be sure.
I assume you gave it to him early because you couldn’t meet on Valentine’s Day. If it had been February 14, he could have explained it away by saying he got it from a girl at work, but since it was a different day, he couldn’t use that excuse. That may be why he threw away the paper bag and such.
Either way, I think you’ll understand the reason if you ask, and you may be able to use that information going forward.
If you were seeing each other almost every week, there’s no doubt that he likes you.
It was probably something he did to avoid being found out, so say what you need to say and get it off your chest. Hopefully, you can make up afterward.
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No way, that’s awful. Did he put only the contents inside your bag, or what??
A lot of men are pretty oblivious, so he probably hasn’t noticed that you’re hurt and have been acting differently without saying anything.
It could turn into lingering resentment, so I think you should tell him how you feel and ask him directly.
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That’s absolutely awful.
I’m sure he may have his reasons, like having a family and not being able to take it home, but leaving it somewhere visible like that… I really question what kind of person he is. You did the right thing, though! Honestly, you were amazing for pretending not to notice. That must have been painful.
I feel like you should just cut someone that awful out of your life! Still, I’m sure everyone has their own reasons for doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)…
But if you’re comfortable with it, I think you should just drop him.
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