A naive question, but why do men feel sexual desire toward girls many years younger than themselves?
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I have a papa (a male supporter) in his 70s and another in his 50s, and they often suggest an adult relationship (intimate).
To me, someone in their 70s is my grandfather’s age, while someone in their 50s is my father’s age.
Both of them have daughters, and the one in his 70s even has a grandchild who is the same age as me.
I don’t particularly care that they have sexual feelings toward me, but I do find it puzzling that they would want to have sex with a girl around the same age as their own daughter or granddaughter.
I could understand it at least if they were interested in women in their 30s, but at my age, don’t I look too young to them?
I often hear people say it’s simply an instinct shared by living creatures, so I would appreciate a somewhat more rational answer than that.
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Come on—whether you’re in your 20s or 30s, from a man in his 70s’ perspective, it’s all the same, right?
Even from a man in his 50s’ perspective, 38 and 28 are basically both in the “30-something” category. I hear that guys around 30 tend to prioritize looks.
That said, if she’s around 19 or 20, he might be into very young women and prefer students. That’s just his particular preference.
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I’d like to understand why you consider an explanation based on instinct to be not particularly rational.
From the standpoint of women who are adults, I don’t think there’s any fundamental difference between women in their twenties and those in their thirties. You might expect them to have different levels of experience in society, but age and social experience don’t necessarily go hand in hand.
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On the contrary, why would you think older men don’t feel sexual desire for young women? Do you really think becoming elderly changes what’s in their heads?
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I don’t understand the part where you say that it would make sense if the woman were around 30.
There’s still a 40-year age gap between a 70-year-old man and a 30-year-old woman. Why is that understandable?
If you take it a step further, how large an age gap would you consider acceptable—and why would that particular gap make sense to you?
When you think about it this way, it seems you’ll realize that there isn’t any clear reason for the part you couldn’t understand.
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