Men may feel love through sex, but I feel like women can't. Maybe it's just me. But lesbian couples build love that way too.

I won’t deny that sexual release is part of it, but I do this because I want women to enjoy themselves too. It sounds like you’ve never had enjoyable sex, have you? I like hugging and gently caressing her too. But I like it even more when I’m inside her and stroking her, and she tightens up—it feels incredible. I think men feel love when a woman shows them sides of herself that she doesn’t show anyone else.

When someone says they’ve never climaxed, does that mean they’re still inexperienced? Or do they unconsciously pull themselves away from the wave right before climaxing because they can’t ride it? If your clitoris is positioned a little farther forward, it may be harder to climax. But if you gently press a vibrator or something similar against it during penetration, the wave can come all at once and you may be able to climax. Give it a try. If you simply accept the sensation and let yourself go, you can climax. It’s an incredibly languid, pleasurable feeling. Some of you may even leak urine or have a bowel accident from climaxing too intensely, but don’t worry—the men will accept that too. And I don’t think love is only about the act itself. Climaxing together, hugging, licking, biting, sucking— I believe all of that is love. Of course, the drowsy time afterward is love too. Even meaningless little conversations are love. ♡

Even Maezawa knows the “former top girl I got back together with.” She has the kind of worries that come from being too beautiful. She has a heart as barren as a desert, thinking: “Every guy is only after one thing, right? Love? What’s that?” Meanwhile, I think: “Every woman who approaches me is only after money, so there’s no way I could genuinely fall for her.” And honestly, I think that’s probably true—they are after the money. That former top girl and I are extremely close, and things have been especially good since we got back together. We’re not boyfriend and girlfriend, and I’m just her papa (a male supporter), but apparently she feels comfortable with me. She even invites me to her own place—a room she says she’s never let even her boyfriend into. I’d never actually go, though, lol. Questioner, why not start by finding a good papa? Having a good papa might gradually help your heart thaw. Love comes after that. For now, do your best to find someone who truly understands you. A lot of papas are good at giving head pats, too. I haven’t found love yet either, but let’s keep trying together. I’m sure you’ll find it someday!