Tips Feb 5, 2022 11:51

I end up getting carried away in conversations with men, including my papas, even though I honestly find them incredibly boring. Over time, through jobs where I had to talk with men—not hostess work—and papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I’ve gotten much better at talking to men. I can basically talk to any man for hours. With my papas, I spend three or four hours talking before sex. I’m just talking on autopilot without thinking, and I find it boring as hell, but my papas say they’ve never met a girl who’s this fun to talk to, so apparently they enjoy it. A lot of papas tell me I’m quick-witted or smart, so I guess I’m not the soothing type—I’m just good at keeping the conversation going. Because of that, I’m the type who can keep a dinner-only arrangement going for quite a while.

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I just want to wrap up the conversation quickly, finish dinner in about two hours, and go home. But the conversation keeps going and every date ends up being so long. Dinner alone takes four hours. How can I end things more quickly? Even the conversation before sex goes on for three or four hours. I want to take a shower and get things over with in about 30 minutes.
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You just need to avoid letting the conversation drag on. If you’re good at keeping a conversation going, you should also know how to shut it down. If you don’t understand that, you still have a lot to learn.
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Really? It seems like everyone is eager to finish dinner and move to a room, though (lol). I agree with Flagmaker’s opinion too. Marika
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If you steer the conversation toward dirty talk, it’ll quickly turn into an adult relationship (intimate).
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Toward the end, I think you should do the following: - Order dessert - Say, “I’m full” - Then go to the restroom The man should take care of the bill while you’re gone. When you come back from the restroom: - Say, “That was delicious,” and put your mask back on - Give off the impression that you’re ready to leave - Start putting on your coat That should get you out of the restaurant. If a woman doesn’t go to the restroom, there may be no natural opportunity for him to pay, and things can drag on. Go to the restroom at the right time.
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A lack of communication skills is often the cause of various problems, so being good at communicating is definitely a plus. If you can also learn how to wrap things up without putting too much strain on yourself, you’ll be unstoppable. Akari
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With that kind of conversational technique, bringing up sexual topics seems like it would quickly lead to sex.
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