Why do papas like having meals with staff so much? With the papa, me, and a staff member, the staff member always looks really tense—or nervous, at least—and definitely doesn’t seem to be enjoying themselves. They kept glancing at the time, and while we were eating together I thought, “They probably just want to get back to work already.”
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What’s so enjoyable about eating with staff? It’s a nuisance for the staff too, isn’t it?
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No, no—you win over the male members, build relationships, and get them to make offers.
That’s the job of the staff at Universe.
If you think, “They look exhausted from pushing themselves so hard,” it’s basically the same as admitting that you’re not working hard yourself.
I think, “They’re working so hard—good for them.”
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I can’t speak for the other staff, but I personally enjoy having tea or a meal with male members.
We can talk about all kinds of things, including women’s topics, so I find it strange when staff consider it a nuisance.
That said, if I went expecting it to be just me and a male member, only to find that he had brought a woman along…
I might wonder, “Why did he bring her?” or think, “I can’t really have any deep conversations with her here.”
Maybe that’s what created the awkward atmosphere?
Still, I don’t think many male members bring women with them. Usually, the conversation involves more personal topics—things that wouldn’t be as enjoyable if a woman were present.
Incidentally, unlike male staff, female staff may sometimes find it burdensome to have tea alone with a man.
That’s probably because, as women, it can become uncomfortable if the male member stops seeing them as staff and starts viewing them as women.
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I’m quite close with the staff member handling my account, and they sometimes invite me out for tea, so I make a point of meeting them whenever possible.
Bringing a woman along is out of the question.
We have some pretty deep conversations, especially about allowances.
I’ll preface it by saying, “What I’m about to say is just me talking to myself, okay?” and then have them listen to the allowance amounts I give each woman I’m seeing. Not just hear it—actually listen.
I never discuss anything that could embarrass the women. I don’t talk about their bodies or anything like that.
Sometimes I’ll even show them masked screenshots of the flow of conversations from Letter Date.
They already know I’m a “loser guy,” so I use terms like “ace” and “former ace,” too.
If I have a monthly arrangement I’d like to recommend to TheSalon, I’ll explain her strong points in detail. I’ll also offer unsolicited advice, like, “To get her more offers within Universe, her profile should be written this way.” m(｡>__<｡)m
TheSalon is a separate organization, so of course she still goes through the interview process and gets accepted through the regular route. I won’t try to force her in through connections, but I do put in a good word because I want her to pass.
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I enjoy having meals or tea with the staff because we can exchange information—mainly about recent trends in the dating club industry.
However, since it’s difficult to speak frankly when my dating partner is there, I’ve never considered having a staff member join me on a date with a woman.
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The staff are doing their job too, so don’t just sit there quietly—keep the conversation lively. That’s your job as well. See? Handle it like an adult.
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