Does not hearing back for a week from someone who always replied the same day mean she’s ended things with me?
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Her birthday is coming up, and we had talked about celebrating it on our next date, so I can’t imagine this is how things end. I had even asked what kind of present she wanted.
She’s been my favorite woman since we met a year ago, and we used to see each other two or three times a month.
Could the problem be that I only managed to see her once a month last month and this month because I happened to be busy? That’s the only reason I can think of.
If you were a teenager with raging hormones but little experience, I might advise you to “keep contacting her no matter what—it probably won’t work out, but it’ll be a learning experience.”
But since you’re apparently in your 40s and have already gained a fair amount of life experience, the best advice would probably be: “Try to become a perceptive older gentleman.”
That said, things can get bizarrely complicated here at Universe Club—almost as complicated as the situation in Europe.
To share one of Joe’s own modest experiences, there was a time when someone suddenly vanished after receiving a seven-figure sum that would round up to eight figures. Then, six months later, she suddenly reappeared in front of Joe with another seven-figure sum—one that still wouldn’t round up to eight figures.
What I’m trying to say is that the chances may not be high, but if you liked her that much, it might be worth contacting her just once.
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It’s Taro here.
You’ve been seeing each other for about a year, right? Would she really cut you off just because you’ve been meeting a little less often? Especially since she’d been talking positively about giving you a birthday present. Were there any other warning signs? Did she suddenly start mentioning someone else she was seeing, or did you turn her down when she unusually asked to meet? I feel like something must have happened.
Alternatively, maybe she had several papas and dropped you while reshuffling her portfolio. Does she seem like the type of woman who would do that?
Anyway, if her birthday is coming up, just send her a birthday message on the day. If she doesn’t reply, then it’s over. There’s no point dwelling on it, so take some time to reflect honestly, then move on and look ahead.
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If he was only paying you on a pay-per-meeting basis once a month, that’s probably the reason.
You need to think about things from his perspective and consider his living expenses too. If he’s someone you don’t want to lose, it’s better to give him a more or less fixed amount each month.
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Well, that happens sometimes. It’s happened to me too.
Women tend to cut through the flow and context with their emotions, so things don’t always add up.
A relationship doesn’t become a continuous line leading into the future. It’s just a series of separate points passing by, endlessly.
Besides, even if we think we’re having a good relationship, they’re probably forcing themselves to some extent.
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