Tips Jan 31, 2022 01:49

Does canceling at the last minute on the morning of our plans make a bad impression?

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This will be our eighth time meeting. I can’t set a rescheduled date yet because of work, so I’ll let him know that it’s still undecided.
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Canceling at the last minute on the morning of the date leaves a bad impression. At the very least, you should let them know by the day before, and as an adult, I think it’s only natural to offer appropriate compensation.
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It would be one thing if she at least suggested a few possible dates to reschedule, but if she doesn’t even do that, I’d start worrying that maybe I did something wrong. It probably wouldn’t leave a good impression. That said, given the current circumstances, if she’s unwell or has another valid reason, it can’t really be helped. I’d actually appreciate her choosing not to meet if there’s any risk involved.
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That gives a bad impression. I think the branch office will be contacted. A rescheduled date? You can’t decide because of work? What are you even talking about?
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It would leave a bad impression. And if they told me they hadn’t decided on a new date yet, I’d feel like they didn’t really want to meet, so I’d move on and look for someone else.
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It does leave a bad impression, but it’s still better than dragging things out and waiting until the last minute to say anything. If you don’t have a specific date for the next meeting, she may assume you’re ending things and move on to another papa (a male supporter). You could send a small token gift, such as a modest Amazon gift card or some LINE Pay credit. If you already have an established relationship, you probably wouldn’t need to do anything. But since you’re asking here, I assume you’re not quite at that stage yet. Marika
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Unlike men, women’s physical condition and moods naturally fluctuate. As a man, you could just consider it lucky that you’ve been able to take care of work or other plans. If this is the eighth time, there shouldn’t be any problem. Paper Airplane However, > Does this make me look bad? Since you’re asking that, it doesn’t sound like there’s an unavoidable reason, so continuing the relationship itself may be difficult. It also doesn’t seem like you have the kind of relationship where you can communicate openly without worry.
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Of course it would be bad. At the very least, I don’t think there’s anything about it that would leave a good impression.
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