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Jan 30, 2022 19:53
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
It may be a good idea to check with each other whether you’re both not looking to be intimate every time you meet.
Some women in the B category feel that way. Even C-category women are often happy to go on dinner dates or outings if you meet frequently. They’ll be glad to see you regardless of the allowance.
I think having dinner dates two or three times before becoming intimate lets the anticipation build and helps you discover your compatibility.
Dinner dates with a woman you have amazing adult compatibility with feel wonderful. Whether you’re going out, taking a drive, walking around town, seeing a movie, singing karaoke, or going to a bar, everything is enjoyable…
I hope you meet someone whose pace for dinners, dates, and adult intimacy—and whose overall compatibility with you—is an ideal match.
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Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
Every now and then, why not?
But if you’re expecting an allowance just for having dinner, it’s better to agree on the allowance in advance.
I’m already tired of having to worry about things like that.
Today, he came over to my place without any allowance. Hooray for shorter business hours.
Other
If it’s three dinner-only (no intimacy) dates a month and one adult relationship (intimate) date, you might feel like he’s being stingy. But if it’s the other way around, I think it’s perfectly fine.
It’s best to agree on the allowance for dinner-only dates in advance to avoid any trouble.
Other
It’s actually pretty common.
There are all sorts of reasons—she may not have time, be on her period, or simply not be in the mood.
If she isn’t feeling it, forcing sex isn’t enjoyable for either of you. At that point, it’s no different from masturbating.
Other
It’s happened to me many times, and I don’t think women necessarily want to do it every time either, so I think that’s perfectly fine. That said, I do think it’s best to discuss the allowance, just to be safe.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Once you’ve had an adult relationship (intimate) even once, women start expecting it whenever you meet up, even if you’d prefer to see them for dinner only (no intimacy).
I suppose it might work if the allowance were the same for dinner as it is for an adult relationship (intimate), but…
Other
I think that sounds great!
You should discuss the allowance upfront, but having an arrangement that also includes dinner-only (no intimacy) dates sounds wonderful.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
If the man wants that kind of relationship, I think he should get the woman’s consent in advance, including agreeing on the allowance.
Otherwise, she may be counting on receiving the allowance, so being told unexpectedly on the day could leave her disappointed. It could also mean that the relationship doesn’t continue.
That said, if the allowance remains the same as usual, I don’t think it would necessarily cause much trouble even if it came up that day. But unless you only decided to change your mind that day, I think it’s better to let her know beforehand.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Yes, they do.
Everyone has their own way of thinking, so I think it’s best to ask the person you’re dating.
Other
That sounds good.
Please discuss and agree on the allowance for the dinner date in advance, and provide it accordingly.
Marika