Tips Jan 24, 2022 19:23

Men’s behavior afterward varies, but some show no consideration at all.

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They finish, silently get out of bed, and start using their phone or go take a shower. After removing the condom and ejaculating on my stomach, they leave me there without helping me clean up or even checking on me. I assume it’s because this is a transactional relationship for money, but what do you all think?
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I’m Ayase Nana☆ That’s awful… and so lonely. Usually, after we’re done, we cuddle up and doze off together while chatting.
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Fuu
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer. He sounds like a papa to avoid. If she meets a good papa, she’ll say goodbye to him. There are women who just lie there passively, jump straight into the shower, and try to cut things short. There probably won’t be a next time. With someone you see regularly, it’s best for both of you to be considerate and maintain a good relationship.
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ダイ
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. If you’re asking what I think, I’d say that’s completely unacceptable. That said, as you mentioned, men come in all types. I feel like you simply shouldn’t continue seeing a man who behaves that way…
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だて◎ゆめ
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. Our relationship isn’t quite like what you described, but if you can’t feel mutual consideration, it’s probably best to end it. A relationship where neither person feels they’re gaining anything isn’t worth forcing yourself to continue. Money isn’t everything in a relationship.
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カズ
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I’m Kazu, a male member. I guess there are people like that. I feel that when someone behaves that way, the other person will naturally respond in kind. Even in a transactional relationship, we should remember that the other person is still a human being.
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