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Jan 20, 2022 22:25
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At the company I work for, the women in their 30s are extremely popular with the male employees. You can really feel that they’re seen as women. When I was a new employee, it was the opposite—I was treated like a child. Among people my own age, I’m seen as having a mature-looking face, though… Recently, now that I’ve turned 27, I finally feel like I’m being seen as a woman, but does the opposite happen in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)? Looking at the answers on Q&A sites, there seem to be a lot of people saying that women in their 20s are more in demand, so I’m worried that even if I become more popular outside of papa-katsu, I might become less popular in it. Will I start seeing my papas less often?
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Other
I’m Rin, a female member of SALON.
I think it depends on each man’s preferences, but since this is the kind of club where people look for someone they wouldn’t normally meet, I feel they tend to make offers to younger women. For example, if a man is in his 40s, he probably already has women in their 30s around him, so he wouldn’t go out of his way to look for one through a dating club.
That said, there are certainly men who prefer women in their 30s or older, as well as those who prefer someone around their own age. So I think the important thing is to value the people you do get the chance to meet.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I don’t think that’s necessarily true.
Attractive women can still receive offers in their 30s.
Even if men initially want to meet women in their late teens or early 20s, once they gain some experience with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), some start avoiding women who are too young.
These days, I mostly make offers to women in their late 20s myself.
Other
I’m Ayase Nana ☆
I think people who remain popular even in their 30s and 40s are truly attractive.
But I feel that many people prefer women in their 20s.
Maybe the men at the questioner’s club simply find women in their 30s attractive—doesn’t society in general prefer younger women?
Other
Not that it matters, but what a morally lax company.
Some men prefer younger women, while others prefer women in their thirties or older.
There’s a charm that comes with each age.
Marika
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Kohei Uchimura has retired, but just as in sports, if it’s only about physical stamina, appearance, and the firmness and elasticity of your skin, then you’ll eventually “retire” at a certain age.
With that in mind, if you can express what makes you uniquely you, both men and women can continue to be popular—or even become more so over time.
Paper Airplane
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
Frankly, I’m more worried about the person asking this question for “worrying” about something like this—I’m starting to wonder if their brain has melted. You’re not seriously worried, are you? This is just a harsh joke, right?
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
That’s not necessarily true. Some people only make offers to college-aged women, while others love women in their late twenties and early thirties.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Were there a lot of answers saying that women in their 20s are in higher demand? It seems to me that many people said women in their 30s are popular too.
For example, this one: https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/11063
Personally, I don’t make offers to teenagers because that’s not for me.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
That’s not true at all. Attractive people are attractive at any age (lol).
No need to worry!