Tips Jan 17, 2022 10:40

I tend to get hungrier and suffer from severe bloating around my period, so I gain around 5 kg.

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During that time, I feel unattractive, I’m not in the mood, and my stomach hurts, so I don’t want to go on dates—but this time, my first date (just dinner) may fall during that period. I’m wondering whether I should ask to reschedule because I won’t be looking my best.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. Of course, looking good never hurts, but men aren’t offering to meet you solely because of your appearance. That said, if you need to reschedule because you’re suffering from severe period pain, I think most men would understand.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from Shacho-shitsu, and I’ll answer this too. This isn’t really phrased as a question, but if you’re asking: “Would it be better to change it to another day?” Then, if changing it seems possible, I think it’s fine to ask. However, men often set aside time specifically for that day, so it may be difficult to change the date. You could try asking something like, “I know it may not be possible, but would it be possible to reschedule? If not, the original date is totally fine.” By the way, with a first date through Universe, changing it after it’s been confirmed is treated almost the same as a last-minute cancellation, so I don’t recommend asking to reschedule.
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I’m Rin, a female member of SALON. Around 5 kg is quite a significant amount. If you’re feeling unwell, especially at a time like this, I think it’s better to cancel. But if you know what caused it, you should probably be honest and tell him beforehand, then let him decide. The plans have already been made, and he may have adjusted his schedule and even made a restaurant reservation for you.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. So, what would you like to ask?
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