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Jan 12, 2022 21:04
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And aren’t there also a lot of older guys who mistakenly think men in their 40s are young?
Also, I don’t know if it’s an attempt to look younger, but I feel this tendency is especially strong among older guys and grandpas who work out. I’ve been surprised by how many unattractive narcissists I’ve come across in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
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You’re pretty deep into papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) too, aren’t you?
Before joining the club, I never paid much attention to age-gap couples or anything that looked like papa-katsu. But after joining, I started noticing them everywhere.
It’s kind of like how, after buying a car, you suddenly see the same model everywhere.
Paper Airplane
I guess you can’t go back to the way you were before, when you didn’t notice these things.
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
You can’t turn desires like that into money?
That applies to everything.
Making money means using people’s desires to move money out of those who have it. If you’re getting hung up on something like that, you’ll never make any money, lol.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
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I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this one too.
What exactly do you want the other person to realize, and what do you want them to do about it?
Do you want them to stop doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
If you don’t do papa-katsu yourself and simply feel that they should quit, then I’d suggest you actually try it first before telling them that.
And if you do participate and feel that way, wouldn’t you lose your allowance if they came to their senses and said they were going to quit? Wouldn’t that cause you a problem?
I’m not really sure what your goal is.
🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
This is Fuu, your column writer.
Anti-aging—wanting to resist aging and stay young for as long as possible, just as the words imply.
If someone doesn’t have that motivation and looks older because they don’t take care of themselves, then if I’m getting the same allowance, I feel like I’d still rather go with a papa (a male supporter) who makes an extra effort to look young and keeps himself fit… right?
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
If men in their 50s are considered grandpas, then people in their teens and 20s are just little kids.
They should wait until they’re capable of doing a proper job before talking big.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I think the person asking this is like someone who deliberately goes to Antarctica and then says, “I’m amazed it’s this cold.” What I find strange is why they wouldn’t turn that surprise into money.
People spend money on narcissism, after all. That very misconception is why some men pay a generous allowance to be intimate with young women.
If everyone just said, “I need to know my place,” and retired from the scene, Japan wouldn’t have upscale clubs, cabaret clubs, or dating clubs.
It’s the youthful men in their 40s and older who keep the economy moving.
Show them some respect.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
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I don’t just see him as an old man—I think of him as my great-grandfather m(__)m
I’m terribly sorry for causing you trouble m(__)m
But grandfathers and great-grandfathers tend to have more money, you know ♡
A loser guy