I’m supposed to go on an overnight date with my papa, but I’m mentally struggling because it looks like I may be breaking up with the person I truly love (not my papa, but my romantic partner). I’m not sure I’ll be able to smile naturally in front of my papa.
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When something happens with the person you love and you’re feeling really down, do you stop seeing your papa or other dating partners? I obviously won’t cancel at the last minute, but I’d appreciate your opinions for the future.
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I honestly can’t remember the last time I felt that gloomy—it’s been years—so I go ahead and meet as planned.
As for the women, it really depends on the individual. Some ask to meet so they can talk things out, while others say they’re not in the right mental state and ask to reschedule.
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I’m Rin, a female member of SALON.
I’ve never had a boyfriend since starting this, so I can’t say for sure, but if I were you, I’d try to enjoy my time with my papa as much as possible.
Try not to think about your boyfriend… I don’t know why things seem to be heading toward a breakup, but if you’re involved in this kind of activity, there’s always a chance he could find out someday and end things with you.
Why not continue only if you’re prepared to accept that? I think there’s always some risk.
Instead of your papa, I’d be happy to listen to you myself!
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I once had a date rescheduled the day before we were supposed to meet in person for the first time after I made an offer through letter dating.
When we met later and I asked what had happened, she told me that her boyfriend had cheated on her that day and she was emotionally devastated.
She said that if it had been a set-up date, she would have gone ahead and met him without rescheduling. But if she was feeling so down, I don’t think the man would have enjoyed the date very much either.
If a papa (a male supporter) is close enough to her to spend the night together and knows she has a boyfriend, wouldn’t he be understanding if she explained the situation and be willing to discuss postponing the overnight date?
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