What impression do you get of women who use the “That’s wonderful” messaging feature? Even if they send polite messages, do you feel they’re desperate because they haven’t received any offers, or that they’re being too aggressive?

This is Umino from the staff. As the other respondents have mentioned, it is technically possible to send a copied-and-pasted message, so I do think that’s the main drawback… However, if it’s someone you genuinely think is wonderful, I believe that putting your feelings into words will come across properly, so there’s nothing to lose by sending it! I hope this helps, even if only as a reference. m(_ _)m

Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here as well. Even after adding a messaging feature, we’ve been hearing that many messages are still copied and pasted, so it seems this is a difficult issue to solve. We’d have to look at the actual messages to know what’s being judged as copy-and-paste, but perhaps some messages are written in a way that makes them seem like they came from staff, even when they didn’t. That said, if you put some thought into your message and make it feel less like a template, the recipient may realize that it was written specifically for them. So it’s worth trying. Some men may even feel like sending a reverse offer if they receive a message written that way. Ultimately, though, I think it also depends on whether you’re their type. And unlike an answer on a Q&A page, the message probably won’t reveal much about your personality, so it may still be difficult. They may assume you’re sending a message because you haven’t received any offers, but it can still be effective, so I think it’s worth giving it a try.

Since it can be copied and pasted, I don’t think they’re all that concerned about it. They’re only aware enough to know that it’s not technically on hold. Paper Airplane

I’m Dai, a male member. The messaging feature was recently introduced, but since you can still copy and paste messages, I feel like not much has really changed. Rather than being overly aggressive, I think they’re probably just desperate because they haven’t received any offers. Maybe it’s because I keep my annual income private, but I get the impression that most of the women who say things like “You seem wonderful” are that type.