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Jan 10, 2022 08:53
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I’m actually hesitant to approach popular women with lots of stars because it feels intimidating.
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柄崎 一成(スタッフ)
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I’m Karasaki from Universe Club Customer Success, and I’d like to answer this as well.
To put it bluntly, it’s difficult to eliminate the risk of STIs entirely.
A popular woman who receives a lot of offers may be having adult relationships (intimate) with many men—or things may not have progressed that far. Conversely, even if she has received no offers through the club, she may be seeing one man after another outside the club.
When you meet her, the best approach is probably to have an honest conversation about what her everyday life is like and how she thinks about STIs.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
An acquaintance who used to work in the adult entertainment industry told me that no woman makes it through that line of work without catching an STI, so I still think sex workers are at greater risk.
That said, I’ve learned here that there are far more men demanding unprotected sex than I expected, so women doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) can’t afford to let their guard down either.
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Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t see that strong of a correlation.
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Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
There are many different ways of looking at this, so it’s not something I can answer definitively.
Going by your way of thinking, you could even argue that ordinary couples might be the riskiest of all, since they probably haven’t been tested for STIs.
What counts as “dangerous” depends on your own perspective. If you’re uncomfortable with it, you can simply leave the site.
If you believe the adult entertainment industry is safer, then I think you should go there instead. That’s a matter of personal opinion. We don’t know what the reality is, and I don’t think anyone has actually researched it.
Being an adult means making your own decisions and taking responsibility for your actions. I don’t think hearing other people’s opinions will make much difference.
That said, I do think your way of looking at it is rather extreme.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
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Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
If that’s how you feel, then I think you simply shouldn’t make offers to popular women with lots of stars.
That said, I believe STIs mainly spread among people who negotiate for unprotected encounters.
Women who receive fewer offers may have a harder time refusing when a man asks for no protection, since they have fewer men to choose from.
In fact, many popular women get tested regularly, and they can easily turn away men who want to go without protection, so their risk of carrying an infection may actually be lower.
STIs are an unavoidable risk when engaging in this kind of activity, so I think both sides should protect themselves properly and enjoy things responsibly.