I’m unbearably lonely. I find myself second-guessing people. I’m terrified of people—that’s who I really am.

Question

I’ve realized that scouts and hosts ultimately only see me as a source of money. They pretended to be my friends, but then started telling me to come to their club, and the scout acted kind but was actually a frightening person. Maybe it’s a good thing I realized the truth. I’m terrified of people. Even taking prescription medication and trying hard with my appearance don’t make me feel fulfilled. I wonder if it’s because I’m still a virgin. A classmate from high school got married in her teens, and she seems very happy, with a supportive family home to return to. Did I make the wrong choices in life?

Answer 1

I’m Aya, a female member. Scouts and hosts aren’t worth trusting in the first place, so I don’t think you need to trust them at all.

Answer 2

I’m in Seattle. Scout agents and hosts make a living by treating women as sources of money. That’s simply the nature of the job. Find a good man and a good career, and you can earn your own money and be happy.

Answer 3

Joe here. You’re young, aren’t you? If you’re in your twenties, you’re still in the morning of your life—with so much to learn and prepare for. You shouldn’t have time to feel lonely. Pull yourself together! You’re young, so do your best—not just for yourself, but for Japan too!

Answer 4

I’m Dai, a male member. If you’ve realized that scouts and hosts only see you as a source of money, it’s time to realize that being a virgin isn’t the reason you’re afraid of people. Rather than saying you made the wrong choices in life, I think you’re simply a woman who’s been slow to notice certain things.

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