There’s a man I met through a club whom I’ve seen several times. He keeps suggesting things I’ve repeatedly refused, such as asking me to send him nude videos. If this is genuinely his preference, I feel he should look for someone else, so I’ve clearly told him I’m not comfortable with it and have never agreed—but he still frequently suggests it over LINE.

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I enjoy the time we spend together, and he’s kind and someone I respect, so I’d like to continue our relationship. However, I’m starting to feel stressed and guilty having to think of a way to turn him down every time he brings it up on LINE. At first, I wondered if he was deliberately doing things I disliked because he no longer wanted to see me. But he also contacts me saying he wants to meet, so honestly, I don’t really understand what he wants. I’d really appreciate some advice on how I should continue seeing someone like this.

Answer 1

This is Umino from the staff. I think it’s best for both of you if you firmly turn down anything you’re uncomfortable with! It may take courage to say no clearly, but I recommend being upfront so you can make things better going forward!

Answer 2

I’m Nana Ayase ☆ A relationship that makes you push yourself isn’t good for your health. If you can’t be strong, let’s try one more time. If that still doesn’t work, I guess it’s goodbye.

Answer 3

I’m Kazu, a male member. I get the feeling that some men think you’ll eventually give in if they keep pressuring you. Since you’ve already made it clear that you’re saying no, I think all you can do is tell him that if he keeps being persistent, you don’t want to continue seeing him.

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