Tips Jan 6, 2022 22:01

I’m a woman in my 30s and a member. I’d like to use my allowance for self-investment—what would you recommend as I look toward my 40s? Financial investments, learning a language, taking classes, traveling, experiencing art and culture, and so on? Before joining Universe, I had very little money, but I used my salary for things like these. Since registering, just as Mac once suggested, I’ve been putting the money into an Alfort chocolate box along with my gratitude, without counting it. I thought, “I’ll find something worthwhile that I want to do by the time it’s full!” The time is almost here, but I still haven’t been able to find anything.

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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. It really depends on what you define as the purpose of your self-investment. For me, the goal was to grow professionally, so the best investments were spending money on books and a computer I needed for work, as well as studying. For women, some may focus on beauty, while others may aim to succeed through starting a business or investing. Professional certifications can be worthwhile too, but when I see someone with around 100 qualifications, I sometimes wonder whether obtaining certifications has become the goal itself.
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I think it’s about investing time and money to clarify who you are and who you want to become. Otherwise, it may just end up being vague wasteful spending and self-satisfaction under the name of “self-investment.” Akari
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. I prefer things like certification exams, which have a clear goal, over classes or hobbies with a vague end point. If a trip has the purpose of learning something, I consider it an investment in yourself. Otherwise, I see it as nothing more than consumption. I think it’s best to focus not on the means, but on the purpose and setting clear goals.
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