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Jan 3, 2022 23:47
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He was a truly wonderful person. Even though I knew he was married, I had been fully enjoying my papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) relationship with him.
On the second date we had scheduled for December, a work-related year-end party suddenly came up, so I asked him if we could reschedule. After that, I never heard from him again. Feeling anxious, I tried the “send a sticker as a gift” method to check whether he had blocked me on LINE, and discovered that he had. I’m really disappointed, especially since I thought we had gotten along well.
As for the two dates scheduled for January, I cleared my work schedule, but since I’ve been blocked, I don’t know what to do.
Why do you think he blocked me on LINE…?
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I’m Nana Ayase☆
Maybe it’s actually for the best that things ended with a male member like that, don’t you think? There are plenty of other men out there, so move on to the next one.
☆The prior commitment was with the male member, right? You were the one who prioritized a later appointment, which is why he cut things off. How do you not understand that?
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member who’s basically lost this one.
I’m constantly running four companies, but if you really want to make time, you can always find a way. I’m probably busier than you, if anything, but I make it work. I have 11 monthly arrangements, after all.
That papa was a VIP to you, even if he wasn’t your absolute top priority, right? So I’m really disappointed that you chose to prioritize something as trivial as a year-end party.
You could’ve simply blown off the year-end party, using your period as an excuse. Why didn’t you keep your appointment with the papa you already had plans with? I have so many monthly arrangements that when someone reschedules or cancels, I just think, “Lucky me—I can save up my sperm.” But an ordinary papa could easily take it badly.
Still, I think this was a good lesson. With the next wonderful papa you meet, don’t let your guard down at all. If he invites you out, make a point of canceling other plans and rushing to see him.
As for why he blocked you, I agree with Mac-san. I think he had been planning to cut ties with you for a while. He just happened to get hit with a rescheduling because of the year-end party, so he thought, “Lucky me♡” and “What perfect timing♪” and blocked you. There’s no point chasing after him, so just let him go.
Of course, you’re asking because you can’t forget him that easily. But if this had been a man you were waiting to propose to, it would’ve been a disaster, so it’s fortunate that it ended as just a papa-katsu mistake♪
Try to stay positive about everything!
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Maybe it was the fact that she said it was a work year-end party that really got to me.
None of my favorite girls would ever prioritize a year-end party. Actually, since they don’t want to go to work parties or drinking gatherings in the first place—even if it’s just women, if they’re coworkers—they’ll use those as an excuse to turn me down.
So prioritizing a work drinking party is the worst. Prioritizing friends or personal plans would be a little more understandable, but even then, they wouldn’t squeeze it in by changing our plans, so it wouldn’t even become a rescheduling situation.
Even Kamihikoki, who’s tolerant of every kind of last-minute cancellation by women, can’t help but tilt his head at this one…
It makes me wonder: was I really lower on her list of priorities than a work year-end party that came up unexpectedly during the pandemic? And if it was “last-minute,” then even more so… Seriously, that’s just unbelievable. More than anything, I hate women who don’t realize how bad that looks.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
What a rude man. Maybe because he thinks he’s in a position to choose from plenty of women through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), he’s adopted an attitude of “women who talk about rescheduling or other hassles aren’t welcome.”
By the way, I feel like quite a few men dislike rescheduling or last-minute cancellations. I mean, sometimes they can’t be helped, right? But wealthy people apparently don’t have much time and don’t want to waste energy worrying about unnecessary things.
My papa (a male supporter) once had another woman he was seeing a few times while seeing me, but apparently she rescheduled and canceled at the last minute, and he ended their relationship before I even realized it. I think it’s selfish, but I suppose he doesn’t like women who won’t work around his schedule. I always arrange my schedule around whatever my papa wants.