How do you spend time with your girlfriend, who is three years younger than you, and how do you show her your love?

I’m a “loser guy” among the male members. Every now and then, she tells me, “You’re always on my side, aren’t you?” We live far apart, so we rarely get to see each other, and we probably only get intimate about once every two years. We haven’t since COVID started, either. It’s a strange relationship—we seem like we’re drifting apart, but somehow never do. I feel like we’re only still together because there’s no real reason to break up. She knows I do papa-katsu, and she knows about my ace as well as the fact that I give my ace a generous allowance. I don’t hide anything from her. She might be the person I feel most relaxed around. When we meet, I give her roughly the cost of one session at a women’s adult service, calling it “money for the service,” but I don’t give her anything specifically as an allowance. As for whether there’s love involved, I honestly don’t know. I’ve helped her out a few times when she was in trouble, but since we’re dating, helping her is only natural.