I’ve been seeing a woman in her forties for over ten years, and we have a very good relationship. However, I can’t deny that she’s gradually losing some of her appeal as a woman. I have no intention of ending or abandoning our relationship, but I make up for the parts of me that aren’t fulfilled as a man through relationships with younger women I meet through a dating club.
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I’ve kept this hidden from her for all these years, but the other day she figured it out a little, and we had a brief discussion.
I regret that I wasn’t able to react very well in the moment, but should I have pretended to completely deny everything?
I’d appreciate your opinions.
BB7 here.
Falling for a younger woman… That sounds like it could lead to quite a confrontation.
Wouldn’t it be best to deny everything outright?
Though if you get caught, it’s over.
If you start brushing off a woman in her 40s or become emotionally attached to a younger woman, a perceptive woman will notice.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here—I’ll answer as well.
Think back to how you met your partner in their 40s, and carefully consider why you’re still seeing them now.
If you do that, I think you’ll conclude that you want to continue the relationship, and you’ll also figure out how to make it work going forward.
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This is Nana Ayase☆
I can’t deny that’s what happens when you’ve been together for a long time, but please hide it perfectly. You may feel better after saying goodbye, but the woman has been with him for 20 years—and that time can never be recovered.
What will you do? Say goodbye?
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You have a wife, a girlfriend in her 40s, and you’re seeing younger women through a dating club? You’re quite the provider.
If she’s a genuine girlfriend, you should probably keep it well hidden. If you get caught, and you have no intention of ending things with the younger woman, at least come up with a proper excuse—something like saying you just went out with someone a little younger.
As for the women in that man’s life—the one I was with for 20 years—I tried not to worry about them as much as possible.
Marika
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