We had an adult relationship at our first meeting, and when I met him for the second time, he suggested that instead of paying the allowance (¥50,000), I help with his side business going forward. Is this something that happens often?
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He said that if I worked as a YouTuber, I could eventually earn around ¥50,000 a month, and that he would teach me how. Just to be safe, I also consulted the club, but I told him that because I have household expenses, I would prefer to be paid per meeting. I also heard that he has a family and is having a hard time paying his employees’ salaries. Has anyone else experienced a situation like this? I’d appreciate your opinions, so I wanted to ask.
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
> Is this something that happens often?
This is practically the first time I’ve heard of it. It’s not common at all.
> He asked, “Would you be willing to help me with a side business in the future instead of receiving your allowance (¥50,000)?”
That means he’s asking you to continue without an allowance, so you should decline. I also think it would be best not to see this man again.
> I heard that he has a family as well and is struggling to pay his employees’ salaries.
If that’s the case, I don’t think he should be using a dating club in the first place. But since this is a matter of free choice, you don’t need to feel sorry for him. I think you should simply decide not to see someone like that again.
> I also consulted the club just to be safe.
If you frame it as a consultation, they may just give you advice along the lines of, “You should do this,” and leave it at that. So I think you should file a complaint, saying something like:
“After the date, he told me that paying the allowance was difficult and suggested that we continue without one in the future. I was confused because that wasn’t what we had agreed to.”
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I’m Aya, a female member.
For example, to earn ¥50,000 a month on YouTube, you’d need to spend hundreds of hours each month filming and editing. That works out to less than ¥1,000 an hour.
You need to put in that much time just to produce enough videos and meet the required watch-time threshold.
Besides, you can’t monetize your channel at all unless you have at least 1,000 subscribers. And taking a few lessons doesn’t mean you’ll suddenly reach 1,000 subscribers, so that papa (a male supporter) is a scammer. End things with him immediately.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
If she consulted the club, does that mean the man was forcibly expelled?
It might happen fairly often on dating apps, but it’s not something you’d expect at a dating club.
After all, the whole point of having a club is to help you avoid running into people like that.
I think you just happened to encounter a rare case.
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That’s not something that happens often.
Cut a papa like that loose in seconds. His poverty will rub off on you.
We really wish guys with no money and stingy guys would leave papa-katsu, right?
Basically, a papa with no money is a papa who doesn’t try—a lazy, unmotivated papa.
A stingy papa will only give you 5 per pay-per-meeting date, no matter how many hundreds of millions he earns.
If you’re a wealthy papa who only gives 5 per meeting, please keep the total date—including dinner—to two hours or less. m(_ _)m
I heard that one of the papas in the multiple-papa lineup of one of my monthly-arrangement girls, whom I met last week, gives 7 per meeting but keeps the total date to two hours.
I was giving her 10 for a total of three hours including dinner, so I felt like I’d lost and added 2, bringing it up to 12 per meeting.
I barely beat him in terms of hourly pay, but the fact that I even thought that way is already pretty stingy of me, isn’t it…
A loser guy
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