Cosmetic surgery recovery is painful, but the anxiety makes me emotionally spiral too.
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I was seriously close to killing my papa (a male supporter) who said I looked cuter before and seemed to think that paying me gave him the right to say anything.
I’m not getting cosmetic surgery because I want to.
If I had a face that didn’t need it, I wouldn’t do it.
I don’t expect people to understand how I feel while going under the knife,
but people who have no empathy really should die for the sake of world peace, right?
I’m Saito, a column writer ♪
I’m not sure how to put this, but quite a few relationships seem to end after someone has cosmetic surgery or breast augmentation.
Even when you’re together, their expression stays the same, and their augmented breasts feel like a sex doll’s.
I can understand it if it’s for looking good on Instagram or necessary for work, but I love natural humanity and beauty that comes from within.
So, if you’re investing in yourself to be liked by men and receive an allowance, I think you should be thorough about finding men who are genuinely your type.
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The problem is wanting the same kind of life as a pretty person. If you’re not pretty, there’s still a life that can make you happy in its own way.
You’re aiming for the wrong thing.
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You’re emotionally exhausted. Take it easy over the New Year holidays and recharge your batteries.
Also, no one told you to get plastic surgery. You were the one who tried to do it. Don’t blame others.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
You sound like you might be exhausted. Cosmetic surgery can really take a toll on you mentally, and the downtime and the emotional ups and downs after the procedure can be draining.
So for now, please don’t push yourself and get some rest. I don’t think you need to force yourself to meet your papa (a male supporter), either.
That said, if your goal in getting cosmetic surgery is to become more beautiful and earn more by leveraging your femininity, then try to keep going by viewing being with a papa as part of the job.
You could also think of it as training to build your mental strength. Wishing you the best.
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I’d say he’s probably a BB7—one of those completely unempathetic “I was just stating the facts. What’s wrong with telling the truth?” types.
I don’t think it’s about whether he has money or not; it’s just part of his personality. There are people in this world with so little empathy that they can’t even imagine, at a level below an elementary schooler, how the other person will feel if they say something.
The world isn’t designed to suit your convenience.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
There was a time when I felt the same way.
But once I realized that if everyone I considered a jerk died, two-thirds of the world’s population would be gone, I stopped thinking that way. Instead, I started thinking about how we could all live together in the same world, even with people like that.
I’m not sure losing two-thirds of the world’s population would exactly make it peaceful. And even if everyone in the world were my clone, I think that would create a chaotic world in its own way.
Good people and bad people naturally coexist, and we all somehow manage to get by together. These days, I think that’s a much more constructive and worthwhile way to look at things.
If you think in an exclusionary way, you end up losing out in all kinds of obvious ways.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
There are many different ways to show consideration.
As you get older, fewer people are willing to tell you what they really think, so sometimes I feel that having someone say harsh things to you can also be a form of kindness.
You seem to be going through a tough time mentally, but I hope your cosmetic surgery goes well!
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