After registering, I received several offers and am currently seeing a few men.
I thought I had met some genuinely nice people whose personalities clicked with mine, so I left the club and am still seeing them. But when I thought about it, I realized that every one of them had sex without protection from the very beginning. (I asked them to use condoms, but some took them off partway through.) It’s made me start wondering if they may not actually be good people after all. Their allowances aren’t particularly high either, so I thought it might be better to look for new papas and gradually say goodbye to the current ones. I re-registered with the club, but I haven’t received a single offer.
Thanks to the people I’m currently seeing, my finances are stable, and now I’m no longer sure whether I should continue cherishing the first people who made offers to me or what I should do.
I’d really appreciate any advice. Sorry for the long post.
Maezawa from the President’s Office here.
> I’ve started to wonder if they may not actually be good people, since they all wanted to do it without protection from the very beginning.
You’ve probably met each of them several times by now, so rather than focusing on whether they want to do it without protection, I think you’re getting a sense of what each man is really like through those repeated meetings.
In the end, I think it’s best to decide based on whether you feel he’s a good person for you.
That said, I think it’s perfectly fine to keep looking for new papas as well.
Once you find a better papa, gradually moving on from the men who aren’t as good is probably what most women do, and I think that’s the better approach.
> I re-registered with the club, but I haven’t received any offers at all.
It’s strange that you received offers before but aren’t getting any this time. Sometimes offers stop coming if your class gets upgraded when you re-register.
I’m not sure what the reason is, but you could try improving the comments you’re able to edit yourself and making some effort to attract offers.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
If a man removes the condom partway through despite being asked not to, I don’t consider him a particularly good man.
That said, if the allowance was agreed upon by both parties and the woman still appears dissatisfied, I also get the impression that she isn’t exactly a great woman herself.
To be blunt, it sounds like they’re both at fault.
Also, it’s only natural that a woman who has re-registered will receive fewer offers than a new member.
I think she would be better off valuing the man she has now.
Personally, I wouldn’t want to make an offer to a woman who is willing to have unprotected sex with even one man.
Even if a woman suggests having sex without a condom with me, my basic stance is to end things.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
If you feel satisfied with the relationship and are happy to continue seeing him, then I don’t see a problem. You’re looking for a new papa because you want someone better, right? I imagine the man you’re seeing is doing the same.
As a relationship continues, both people naturally become more accustomed to each other—for better or worse. To prevent that from happening, I think you should continue to value your current partner appropriately, as he is.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Why not take the plunge and sign up with a different dating club? You may find that the type of papa (male supporter) is different there too.
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You may still receive offers if you re-register, but offers from men other than new members will be considerably fewer.
Even as a new member, men’s interest gradually fades after three days, three weeks, and three months. So I think the connections you make early on are especially valuable. If a man likes you right away and makes you an offer, there’s probably a good chance he’s genuinely taken with you.
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