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Dec 25, 2021 21:17
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茉莉花
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Some people just stride ahead at their own pace, don’t they?
Even if you fall behind because you can’t keep up, hoping they’ll notice, people like that usually don’t. If it were me, I’d tell him to wait—but if you don’t want to be seen walking beside him, do your best to keep up without letting him lose you.
An inconsiderate man is probably lacking consideration in other ways, too.
Marika
綾瀬なな
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This is Nana Ayase ♡
Why not try saying, “Wait up~”?
I walk fast too, but if I walk slowly, I feel like I’m wasting time.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office will answer as well.
We can’t know for sure without asking the man himself, but if he thinks it’s better for the woman to walk separately from him, he may walk quickly at first, then slow down once there’s some distance between them. In other words, he may be deliberately creating a situation where they can walk a few meters apart.
If he’s doing it out of consideration for you, then in your case, there’s no problem with walking together. So you could tell him:
“Why do you walk so fast? I’d like to walk together.”
That might help him realize the reason he’s been doing it himself.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I also don’t like being recognized, so I usually don’t walk side by side. However, I walk slightly ahead while checking behind me and keeping a comfortable distance.
I don’t think making a woman run to keep up is considerate. Some men don’t realize that women can’t walk quickly in heels.
Please gently let him know if something is bothering you.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
My papa walks fast too, but I used to tag along behind him, grumbling, “Wait up!” Eventually, he started matching my pace.
So if it were me, I might just ask, “Why do you walk so fast?”
He may be trying to be considerate of you—or maybe he simply walks way too fast normally.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
If she isn’t gradually distancing herself, I’d take it as consideration. It’s hard to tell someone, “Please walk a little farther away from me.”