During negotiations over the allowance with a new male supporter, he said, “I’ll give you 30,000 yen per meeting, plus send you another 30,000 yen a month through PayPay. I don’t want you to become the kind of girl who buys designer goods. It’s more convenient that way.”
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Even if we meet three times a month, that only comes to 40,000 yen if calculated on a pay-per-meeting basis, so I’m not sure how I feel about it. We probably live too far apart to meet very often.
I can’t accept anything less than at least 50,000 yen per meeting. Why can’t he give me the money in cash? Is it because it would be easier for him to make excuses like, “Sorry, I forgot to send it”?
How should I negotiate this so that he’ll agree?
I’m Dai, a male member.
That man probably wants to do it for 30,000 yen. There’s a good chance he’s one of those guys who tries to scam women.
I think you should suggest meeting once a month and ask him to send you 30,000 yen upfront via PayPay.
That way, it’s essentially the same as 60,000 yen on a pay-per-meeting basis, so you’ll be happy and his request will be met too, right?
But I’m sure he’ll make some excuse and turn you down, lol.
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
There really are all kinds of proposals out there, lol. Since you already sound fed up with her, why not just tell her exactly what you want?
I guess you should decide based solely on whether you’d enjoy the relationship, assuming a pay-per-meeting allowance of ¥30,000. As for PayPay, just treat it as a little extra and don’t count on it.
It’d be funny if there were underwear that wouldn’t come off until the payment was made, lol. Bra: ¥2,000. Panties: ¥5,000. A naked guy frantically operating PayPay on his phone, hahaha.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Especially when you live too far apart to meet often, having to travel a long distance every time even though you don’t really want to see that papa can start to feel like a burden—you may find yourself thinking, “I really don’t want to see him…”
There’s no need to sell yourself short when you’re not comfortable with the arrangement.
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