Tips Dec 23, 2021 20:39

Yesterday, I went to a hotel karaoke room with my papa. I sang Mtsuda Siko to match the generation of my 60-something papa, but he lectured me, saying, “There’s no way you’d sing that nowadays. You should keep up with the news and understand what kind of world we live in.”

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Isn’t that awful? I was singing old songs to help the older guy enjoy himself and create a fun atmosphere. I didn’t do anything wrong, right? I keep remembering it and getting angry, so I ended up stress-eating.
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I’m Ayase Nana ☆ That might be a bit of a no-go, though~ (sweat) You knew about it, right? You thought I was being insensitive, didn’t you? I think so too… I think a popular current song would be fine—something by YOASOBI or ZUTOMAYO, for example. Don’t stress-eat over something like that. You’re not a little kid. It’d be a shame to waste all that effort you put into staying slim.
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あかり
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It’s not really about the song choice or which singer she picked. Simply put, I find myself thinking, “Is this girl okay?” Even if she isn’t glued to her phone, she must have seen the news. And knowing that, is she hopelessly stupid, or does she just have a screw loose? Either way, I doubt any papa (a male supporter) would want to pursue an arrangement with her. —Akari
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茉莉花
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If she hasn’t even been following the news—or simply doesn’t understand what’s going on—and then says something like, “I sang for you,” even though you never asked her to, I’d think, “What is she even talking about?” If I were the papa, I might start thinking, “I’m the one paying here,” even if that normally wouldn’t cross my mind, just because of that attitude. Honestly, I’d be disappointed in myself for offering to meet such a stupid woman in the first place. You’re not in the wrong. Marika
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, with an answer as well. If this was around the time news broke that the daughter of the singer who performed the song had passed away, I feel like you couldn’t really blame people for saying that. Maybe something like Devilman would be safer? Although if the original creator passed away, it would be the same situation... It’s a tough one. No one knows—no one must ever know Who Devilman really is .....
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Fuu
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I’m Fuu, a column writer. Well, considering that something sad happened to his daughter, and given the timing, maybe it’s important to read the room. I can understand why the papa said that. You don’t need to get so angry, either. Just let it go in one ear and out the other, and forget about it.
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紙ひこうき
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Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
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Yesterday? That wouldn’t be okay… You need to mention it briefly before you leave. Normally, you can just sing a song from the rankings. Paper Airplane
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This is Joe. Since the person paying you criticized you, I can’t fully take your side. In fact, you should seriously reflect on what you did. The safest choice is “Hana no Kubikazari” by the Tigers.
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カズ
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I’m Kazu, a male member. You’re not in the wrong here. However, I was concerned by how unusually short-fused you seemed.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. To that papa (a male supporter), she must have been his forever idol. I don’t think the person asking the question did anything particularly wrong.
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