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Dec 22, 2021 22:30
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Missionary → from behind → some weird side position → cowgirl → lying-down from behind → missionary… He seriously can’t sit still. Every time he changes positions, he steps on my hair with his hand and rips it out, and he forces me into position so hard that my arms and legs hurt. It’s basically caregiving.
If I want him to finish quickly… or, well, “go” quickly, what kind of technique do I need??
7 answers
🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a columnist.
Since it’s become routine (lol), it may be difficult to help him finish sooner. But here are some ideas that come to mind:
- Show that you’re enjoying it (or pretend to)
- Use a slightly louder voice
- Say things like, “That feels good,” “I’m close,” or “I’m going to finish”
- Hug him and kiss his neck during missionary
- Hold his hand from behind
- Try saying you like it from behind while standing
- Move your hips fully while making sounds in the cowgirl position
- Add some variety like this
↑ Just be careful not to overdo it and make it seem fake.
- Pay attention to the angles, friction, and spots that make it easier for him to finish, and adjust accordingly.
- Tighten down there
- Do pelvic floor exercises so you can tighten more easily
And so on.
Why not ask the person who posted the question to think of some other methods too?
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Rather than trying to get his money’s worth, I think that guy has simply watched too much porn.
The real game is what happens before going all the way. Have her get you right to the point of finishing with oral, then say, “Let’s go inside.”
Though, to be honest, I’ve never actually had someone give me oral, lol.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I want you to be the death of me lol
This is too funny—I can’t stop laughing.
I’d love to have a drink with you, questioner.
—A losing guy
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
The only thing left may be for you to master the art of fantasizing yourself to orgasm and quickly bring yourself to a convulsive climax…
Anyway, if you climax repeatedly and quickly, the man you’re with might finish almost instantly too.
If you can make your orgasms intense enough, he won’t be able to tell that you’re relying on your imagination.
Paper Airplane
That said, this man doesn’t seem to have even enough skill with his hands to assist you… If he’s that incapable of observing women or putting them at the center of the experience…
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
It’s Joe.
I’m sure there are probably some technical tricks, but I think what you need to do is something more emotional. Generally speaking, papas are vulnerable to emotions. So try to enjoy sex with your papa—or at least pretend to enjoy it wholeheartedly. I don’t know how much allowance you’re getting, but if you’re opening your legs in exchange for it, I don’t think it would hurt to put on an act. I can’t say whether your papa will finish any sooner, but he may flip you over fewer times, which should help protect your hair’s cuticles in the long run.
“Don’t assume you can’t even fake it—start by making your eyes well up,” Chi-chan says beside me.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’m responding after reading Maezawa-san’s answer.
I don’t think training at an adult entertainment venue would be all that useful, since it mainly covers the general flow and how to do mat play. There are also freelance adult-industry and sex instructors, but I don’t feel their lessons would be particularly helpful either.
In the end, I think a woman who can try different things, discover her partner’s sensitive spots, and stimulate them appropriately is the one who’s good at sex. So I believe the ways to improve are either working somewhere like the adult-entertainment industry, where you have to satisfy many people efficiently, or simply being naturally proactive and gaining experience with different men.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office here, answering as well.
> What kind of technique do I need if I want her to “go”... come quickly??
I’m not sure what specific technique would be needed, but reputable soaplands apparently offer training, so it might be worth learning from somewhere like that.
I’m not sure whether you can take just the training course, though—and if you can, I assume it would be for a fee.