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What do you think is the difference between women who live happy lives feeling loved and supported by men, and women who spend their lives working part-time, cutting costs, and enduring hardship and sacrifice?

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What exactly makes a man a loser?
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あかり
あかり ?
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Women who are showered with gifts and affection, living happy lives, versus women who work part-time, cut back on spending, and spend their lives enduring hardship and making sacrifices— These aren’t contrasting images of women. That’s a very biased way of looking at things, based on assumptions. Being showered with gifts and affection doesn’t necessarily mean someone is living a happy life, and not every woman who works part-time or saves money is constantly making sacrifices. You’re still pretty naïve, and your perspective is narrow. If you look at society using only your own yardstick, you’re going to run into trouble. A loser guy is someone who only talks and never backs it up with actions. Akari
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あや
あや ?
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I’m Aya, a female member. I believe a “good man” is someone who can respect women as individuals, so the opposite is a bad man.
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だて◎ゆめ
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. That’s a good question. And a difficult one, too (lol). I’m siding with Mac! I think it comes down to how you view your circumstances—your environment and position in life. First, if you accept your current situation and approach things with high aspirations, then I believe you can be happy regardless of where you are now. As Mac says, a loser is a loser! (lol)
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. I think the difference is whether you feel love through money or through something else.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. Does being showered with money really make someone feel loved and happy? There are also women who feel loved and happy while working part-time, saving money, and putting up with many hardships. In the end, I think happiness depends on how each person feels about it. But it seems to me that the questioner is only thinking about getting money without having to work for it… There are many kinds of bad men, too. I also consider men who spoil women endlessly just because they have money, only to suddenly withdraw their support one day, to be bad men.
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綾瀬なな
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I’m Ayase Nana☆ We live on the same property, but he’s capable of working and simply refuses because he’s afraid. When he comes home, he sits in front of the TV, playing games and watching TV. He never helps with the housework, and whenever our children’s school expenses come up, he runs away from the issue. He doesn’t give me any money for living expenses, cuts corners with meals, and gets angry if I’m not there at mealtime. Do you think it’s okay for me to just leave him?
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Seattle. Is the number one priority a household’s earning potential? If you’re getting married, can you find a partner you feel comfortable with? A loser: negative, emotionally abusive, and unwilling to reflect on his behavior.
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