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Dec 20, 2021 13:58
Do men who join Universe because they’re in a sexless marriage leave once that situation with their wife is resolved?
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I often see male members saying that after their wife had children, they became more like family and their relationship turned sexless. But they’re still happy just being together without sex, and their home life is harmonious.
Is it simply that their children are at an age where they require a lot of attention, so they’re not in the mood for that kind of relationship—and once the children are a little older, they’ll return to being intimate and no longer need Universe?
One member said that his child is still young, so the whole family shares a bedroom. Their relationship is sexless, but if his wife initiated things, he thinks he would have sex with her. His wife has come to see him as “Dad.” She even calls him “Dad,” and they’re no longer the kind of couple who use nicknames for each other like they did when they were dating.
But apparently, he still calls his wife by her nickname when their child isn’t around, and uses it for her on LINE too.
Doesn’t this really mean that he still loves his wife and wants to have sex with her, but because she doesn’t have the time or energy for it, he’s simply found someone through Universe to satisfy his sexual needs?
Someday, I want to meet someone and marry a person who says, “I’m happy just having you by my side. I don’t need sex or anything like that.” 😭
