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Dec 19, 2021 09:20
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Of course, people who are eligible for pensions or disability benefits have every right to receive them, so there’s nothing wrong with accepting them. What I’m talking about is people who bring them up as excuses for giving only a small allowance, saying things like, “I’m living on a pension, so I can only give you ¥〇〇,” “I’m doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) with my disability benefits…,” or “I don’t have much money to spare…”
From my perspective, I honestly wish they would use their money to improve their own quality of life instead of spending it on papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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This is Ayase Nana☆
They were trying to take advantage of you. If there’s no allowance or it’s too low, just take the transportation fare and go home.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
If that’s the case, please write it that way.
At the end of the day, he’s simply a man who won’t give you a satisfactory allowance, so you can just take the transportation money and leave.
In any case, whether he receives a pension or disability benefits has nothing to do with not having money, so this isn’t something to complain about regarding the club’s policy.
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People like that use their pension as an excuse to offer a low allowance.
I think you should take the transportation money and leave right away.
They’re not genuinely vulnerable—they’re just rude.
Akari
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Tell him that directly. Men who say things like that during the membership interview shouldn’t be accepted in the first place.
For example, if he says, “I’m living on a pension, so I can only pay ¥〇〇 as the membership fee,” I doubt he’d pass the interview.
You could politely turn him down by saying, “I’d feel bad accepting an allowance from a man who’s struggling on a pension, so I don’t think I can pursue an arrangement with you.”