I’m well-endowed. By Japanese standards, I’d rate myself around 4 to 4.5 out of 5.
Before joining Universe, I used to visit adult entertainment venues (and I still do alongside this).
So, most sex workers—around 60–70%—say, “It’s big!” But I’ve been intimate with about 30 women from the club, and only two or three of them commented that I was “big.”
I wonder if women without professional experience hold back because they think, “If I comment on its size, he’ll assume I’m an experienced, promiscuous woman,” or if they simply don’t have enough experience to judge size accurately.
The reason I ask is that, regardless of whether they really mean it, I enjoy being told, “It’s big!” and then responding, “Huh? It’s really not—it’s small.”
Incidentally, the other day I had the opportunity to be intimate with an ordinary woman in her late 20s who wasn’t from an adult entertainment venue or the club, and she said, “Yours is big,” which really turned me on.
Are the women from the club generally more reserved when it comes to commenting on size?
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I think women who work in the adult entertainment industry say things like, “Oh, it’s small,” because many men are happy to hear that they’re big.
And you, the person asking this question, call yourself well-endowed, yet you still say that? How amusing.
Fuu is on the larger side too, so I use XL condoms. I’m sure there are girls who stopped contacting me because I was too big and it hurt.
I’ve come to realize that being big isn’t always a good thing.
Sometimes I’m told, “You’re big,” but I reply, “Sorry I’m so big. Does it hurt?”
Honestly, I’d like to be more vigorous, but I’m careful not to cause any pain.
I make sure she’s well lubricated, take things gently, and let her enjoy herself until she’s really ready. Only at the very end do I get more vigorous from behind.
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Apparently, my thumb is among the biggest and longest in Japan—I’ve even appeared on TV because of it…
But as for down there… I have no idea…
Paper Airplane
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I’m in Seattle.
A close friend of mine who used to work in the sex industry said he’d rank third out of 1,000. Apparently, number one is “wrist-sized and doesn’t even fit in your mouth.”
Maybe amateurs don’t really notice because they don’t stare too closely. Either way, lube is absolutely essential, I can’t keep going for more than ten minutes, and he’s slow to finish—it’s nothing but a nuisance. Let’s sneak along the shady streets together...
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It’s like going to buy cosmetics and being told, “You have such beautiful skin.” It’s just sales talk.
On a five-point scale, I might call it “big” if I’d personally rate it around a 5+, but at around 4–4.5, expecting to hear “It’s so big♡” is a bit much.
I wouldn’t say “It’s big” just to make someone happy when it really isn’t that big. If, over time, I noticed that hearing it made him happy or got him more excited, I might say it then, though.
—Marika
By the way, my standard for “a good size” is about the size of a bottle of Sara Makigami Hair Water. If yours is that size, please accept my apology for the rude comment and allow me to make a counteroffer.
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Women who are with me for the first time say things like, “Pfft! It’s tiny!” “It’s so soft,” or “Ew, it stinks!! Go wash it, you damn old man!!” about 92.73% of the time, so I’m insanely jealous of the person asking this question.
Loser Guy: “Pleeease give me a biiig one...”
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Being well-endowed isn’t necessarily a good thing for women.
For women who are inexperienced or have a tighter anatomy, it may be more painful than pleasurable.
In that sense, it may not be welcomed, which could be why they don’t say, “You’re big.”
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I’m Ayase Nana☆
At a sex-work establishment, you can see how often someone works and size them up, so even if you’re told it’s “big,” I don’t think you should take it seriously.
At a club, you don’t do it with all kinds of people every day, so you can’t really compare sizes, and you probably wouldn’t know whether a particular shape feels good either.
You’re the type who thrives on compliments, aren’t you?
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I’m Taro, a male member.
Sex workers often say, “It’s huge!” But isn’t that just a polite compliment—or sales talk? Men are happy to hear it, after all.
At a hostess-delivery service, depending on the establishment, they might see four or five men a day. Working three days a week means 15 a week, or about 600 in a year if they work 40 weeks. Even if half are repeat customers, they’d still see around 300. At that point, their honest reaction probably isn’t “It’s huge!” but more like, “Well, that’s fairly decent,” with a slightly condescending attitude. At least inwardly.
On the other hand, if they don’t have much experience, they probably wouldn’t say anything because they wouldn’t know. Even if they thought, “That’s big,” they’d wonder whether that was actually normal. It’s like going from the Seto Inland Sea out into the Pacific and thinking, “So this is what the real ocean is like.” They might feel excited personally, but it’s not the kind of feeling other people would relate to, so I doubt they’d show it outwardly.
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