I’m a Type C in this dating arrangement, but I’ve only ever been intimate with people I genuinely liked, and they’ve always paid 100,000 yen or more per meeting.
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After reading the questions here, I realized I must have just happened to meet some really wonderful papas (male supporters).
Is the going rate usually around 50,000 yen?
I’m Ayase Nana ☆
So you’re getting 100,000 yen per pay-per-meeting? Don’t ever let him go.
I think 30,000–50,000 yen is more common, but apparently some people occasionally offer nothing for going without protection. I wonder how they plan to take responsibility if something happens.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I’ve heard that since COVID, the going rates for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) have gone down. Apparently, 30,000 yen is considered normal on apps now… so I think you were lucky.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t think there’s really a going rate for allowances in these relationships.
For example, one of my partners ended things with a man who gave her 100,000 yen per meeting after about two months, but she’s continued seeing me even though I give her 50,000 yen per meeting.
There are probably couples who continue seeing each other at 30,000, 70,000, or 150,000 yen per meeting, too. So while there may seem to be a standard rate, there really isn’t one.
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