A question about when to update the comment on my profile.

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I’ve been a female member for almost a month now. I entered a comment early on, but I didn’t receive any offers, and I’m not happy with it because I used such generic wording, so I was thinking it might be time to update it, but I’ve finally received an offer. Would it be better to avoid updating my comment at this point out of consideration for the man who made the offer? I also feel that updating it after the date might not be ideal, so I’m not sure when the right time would be. Could you please advise whether I should wait a few weeks after the date, or whether it would be fine to update it now?

Answer 1

I’m Fuu, a column writer. I think it would be helpful if, after requesting that male members who have received offers through the club be hidden, the comments could also be updated.

Answer 2

I’m Kazu, a male member. If you update your profile now, it might give a bad impression to someone who could turn out to be a good man. But if you update it after a date, and things end up becoming serious with that man, he might realize that you’re still looking for other partners. That’s what you mean, right? Either way, it’s a bit of a catch-22. Personally, I’d just change it now. If the man asked about it, I’d say something like, “I got an offer and checked the club page, then realized I’d written something silly, so I fixed it.”

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