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Dec 16, 2021 09:16
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🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Relationships are dots. Just dots.
When lots of dots line up, they may look like a line, but they don’t become a line extending into the future.
They’re dots.
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It’s just unsatisfying in many ways.
That’s all.
Akari
綾瀬なな
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I’m Nana Ayase☆
It’s because the allowance isn’t enough.
No gifts, no allowance, and possibly bringing an infection into the arrangement are probably the reasons.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member who’s terrible at papa-katsu.
I recommend TheSalon to my monthly partners and even encourage them to have other papas, so I honestly can’t understand the questioner’s mindset.
As a man, shouldn’t you just stand tall and say:
“Go find yourself another papa!”
That’s all there is to it.
They leave because you try to keep them all to yourself. Leave the door open for them.
As an aside, when you’re having your first dinner date in a private room, any man who mindlessly seats the woman farther inside just because that’s the seat of honor is an idiot.
I’m sure you’re the type who always seats the woman in the seat of honor. What a waste.
You should study the art of escorting women much, much more.
I’ll say it one more time: leave the door open. That’s the only secret to keeping them around.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Whether this leads to a breakup depends on how she thinks and feels at the time, as well as on what you decide to do.
It isn’t necessarily a sign that she’s about to end the relationship. Surprisingly, there are women who have boyfriends while also doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Perhaps she sees it as something separate from a normal romantic relationship—much like people who don’t consider working in the sex industry cheating.
That said, I imagine there’s something she wants but isn’t getting from her relationship with you. Depending on what that “something” is, it could be a sign that a breakup is approaching.