I saw an answer saying that you hardly ever see women criticizing old men on Q&A boards, but why would a woman sharing stories about creepy old men here go out of her way to tell those same men, “Oh, I read that Q&A board”? Would anyone even do that?
This content is machine-translated.
There’s no way to know what women are doing behind the scenes. I often have meals with an old man and three staff members, and I’ve even been introduced to several old men as “a very polite woman I’d recommend,” which has led to offers. I’ve posted quite a few questions about these shitty old men, and when answers come from staff members who know me well, I think, “They really have no idea it’s me at all, lol.” Though that’s only natural since it’s anonymous.
Neither the women nor the men registered with dating clubs are decent people. Just think about it: money doesn’t normally change hands in a relationship between a man and a woman. If a man pays, isn’t he basically saying, “You probably don’t want to, but put up with me and date me for this money”?
And the woman who accepts it with a smile is basically saying, “I can’t stand being with you unless there’s money involved.”
Do the old men who think there are pure and innocent women at dating clubs also believe that every sex worker loves sex and chose that job because of it?
In other words, both the men and women registered with dating clubs are rotten to the core. This country isn’t polygamous, so why are they trying to justify cheating?
Just as you wrote, that’s what a dating club is, isn’t it? You’re no different from the rest, either. Everyone’s scum.
But with that mindset, you’ll have bad luck meeting people, and decent men probably won’t come near you. Don’t you think you’ll never feel fulfilled that way?
Paper Airplane
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I won’t give specific numbers, but I hear the question box gets a considerable number of visits. By contrast, only a small number of people post what you might call “old-man bashing” in the question box. In other words, very few people are actually ranting there.
If you’re receiving something in return for the agreed-upon allowance, why is there any need to rant? If a woman feels the allowance doesn’t make up for something, she can simply decline the arrangement.
What you’re saying is no different from, “I deserve to be valued more, so why doesn’t society value me? Society is wrong.”
Also, relationships through a dating club are not marriages.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’m Aya, a female member.
It’s only natural that people have both their true feelings and a public face.
You’re making a lot of money through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), right? Since you seem to be doing well, I can’t help wondering why you feel the need to vent your frustration here… Is there some reason you have to punish papa-katsu men?
I can understand your frustration to a degree, but just like with “pure and innocent” adult video actresses, this is a world where the fantasy is precisely what commands a high price. Learn to take the good with the bad and grow into a mature woman.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
It’s Joe.
I do find the harsh wording a little off-putting, but I have no direct rebuttal to the substance.
That said, I really can’t believe that EFG-chan from the Hakata busty trio, or Shi-chan, who I’m currently living with, are putting on fake smiles. Of course, just as Joe has ulterior motives, they probably have their own motives too.
Even if I am being deceived, as long as those smiles continue, Joe will gladly be their ATM. Looking forward to continuing this journey together.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’m Dai, a male member.
Everyone has both a public side and a private side, don’t they?
Can you really see every other person’s private side?
Still, I feel like it would be exhausting if someone’s public and private sides were too different.
Maybe you’re tired and emotionally worn out too, which is why you come here anonymously to vent.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’m in Seattle.
Monogamy is biologically wrong, isn’t it?
The strongest genes should be passed on. Polygyny or polyandry is actually the right way. Christianity has it wrong.
I don’t believe in religion.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
Does someone like that actually exist?
→ Is that the only part of this you’re asking about?
No one would go out of their way to say that.
While sneering, “I managed to fool the staff and the men!” they’re offering their bodies in exchange for money.
Anyone who understands what that means wouldn’t go around calling them “old geezers,” and even if they came to the question box to vent their stress, I don’t think they’d write in such filthy, spit-it-out language.
I’m aware that simply being here means I have an abnormal perspective myself.
That’s why, toward people—regardless of gender—who come here to dump their verbal excrement in the question box, I feel something akin to pity.
Akari
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
