Tips Dec 14, 2021 19:47

My parents keep begging me for money. Do you think I should cut them off? They showed me my bankbook and told me they urgently needed money, that they couldn’t withdraw it without me, and that I had to come. I’m completely at my limit. Why does this only happen to me?

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シアトル
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m in Seattle. I’m one of those people who thinks, “Parents like that should just die.” You should cut them off and get away as soon as possible. I’ve heard stories of stupid parents who spent their children’s scholarship money, too.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, one of the male members. Once you’re no longer right in front of them, your parents will eventually give up. Mac is absolutely right. I used to have a strained relationship with my parents too, but now we get along well and enjoy drinks together. Try to make an effort to live independently. If you use your papa (a male supporter) to help you do that, he’ll be happy to support you.
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Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Joe. In short, you don’t need to give her any money. That said, you shouldn’t let this leave you feeling hopeless. It means she’s struggling financially enough to ask her daughter for help. It may be difficult right now, but please forgive her.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. Since she probably put time and money into you, wouldn’t it be best to just give it to her?
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