Tips Dec 14, 2021 18:57

When my papa makes plans with me, he checks my calendar on the club’s website and messages me things like, “I looked at your schedule…” Is he just being considerate so I don’t have to send him my schedule every time? Honestly, it makes me uncomfortable feeling like I’m constantly being checked on.

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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here. I’ll answer as well. It seems you could ask the club to hide your profile specifically from that papa, so that he’s the only one who can’t view it.
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シアトル
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m in Seattle. He’s basically trying to warn me not to see other men. It really creeps me out.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. I sometimes check the calendar and reach out to invite someone as well. If that makes you uncomfortable, wouldn’t it be enough to simply not post your availability on the calendar?
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. I suppose she thinks it saves both of us time by eliminating the need for all that back-and-forth. I’m surprised there are women who keep their calendars updated so diligently.
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