What’s with people asking for your real name during a letter date? Do they really need to know?
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I could understand it if we’d met and were planning to start seeing each other and get to know one another. But we haven’t even met, and they ask in the second LINE message whether my club name is my real name. Isn’t that rude?
By the way, they introduced themselves using their real name without me asking.
I’m Dai, a male member.
I don’t think there’s any need to share your personal information before you’ve even met and received an allowance.
Maybe that older man believes you should always introduce yourself by name when greeting someone for the first time…
If you simply ignore him, he might leave a negative review and hurt your rating.
For now, give the club honest feedback: explain exactly what happened, say that it made you uncomfortable, and let them know you no longer wish to continue the relationship.
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I'm Nana Ayase ☆
Since he might potentially become a generous (well-paying) papa, would it be okay to use a pseudonym while giving only my real first name?
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t think it’s rude, but I do think it’s foolish. It may be something that person needs to know, but I think most people don’t need to know it.
They sound like a hassle, so I’d just ignore them from now on.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I think it’s only fair to respond to rudeness with rudeness, so in my opinion, the best approach is to give some random fake name off the top of your head. There’s no need to get irritated about it. Just lie smoothly and keep the conversation flowing.
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