I was invited to a hotel, so I asked how much the allowance would be, but he dodged the question, saying, “I don’t know because we might not go all the way. I don’t like giving a woman an allowance during sex because it feels like I’m buying her… Today, I’ll only cover transportation, and as for the future, blah blah blah.”
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So basically, does this mean he won’t give me an allowance if he penetrates me but doesn’t ejaculate?
Even if he kisses me passionately, touches me, and penetrates me, I’d only get transportation costs if he doesn’t ejaculate…
I probably shouldn’t meet this person again, right?
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> So does this mean he won’t give me an allowance unless I have sex with him and he ejaculates?
I feel like it’s actually worse than that.
He writes, “I don’t like giving an allowance during sex because it makes me feel like I’m buying the woman,” so I think he means that he won’t give you an allowance even if you have sex with him and he ejaculates.
In other words, he seems like the kind of man who doesn’t want to pay an allowance no matter what happens.
> So I shouldn’t meet this person, right?
In a dating club where the purpose is a transactional relationship, most women expect to receive an allowance. If you think about whether there’s any reason to meet someone who won’t pay one, it seems only natural to conclude that you shouldn’t meet him again.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I don’t understand what he means. To begin with, a man won’t be liked if he makes a woman feel dissatisfied… so it’s unlikely things will work out with him from here on.
For now, try telling him something like, “You’re not buying me. But I’d be happy to receive an allowance as a token of how close we’ve become.” If he still keeps going on about doing something “all the way” or whatever, I’d say goodbye.
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I never said we wouldn’t go all the way, but he said that handing me the allowance each time made it feel like he was buying something, which I felt the same way about. My papa (a male supporter) gave me 100,000 yen upfront in one lump sum.
That sense of security really matters, doesn’t it?
Marika
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I’m Dai, a male member.
By “not going all the way,” do you mean not having intercourse, rather than not ejaculating?
That still doesn’t justify not paying the allowance, though…
For now, end things with him and give the club your feedback.
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I’m Ayase Nana☆
Please report that man’s name to the staff.
And there’s no need to meet him again.
Let’s all report him and have him forcibly removed from the site.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t know whether he simply won’t give an allowance unless he ejaculates, but it seems he doesn’t want to give an allowance at all. Generally speaking, he’s probably not the kind of man women want to meet through a sugar dating club.
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All those confusing excuses and attempts to dodge the issue are a sign that he can’t be trusted.
He might even try to go without protection like it’s no big deal.
You’re better off walking away!
Akari
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