Men sometimes ask me what I look for in a partner or what type of man I like. What do you think of women with high standards?
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For papa, I say I like someone kind who loves me above anyone else, but that’s just a social nicety. In reality, I prefer men in their 20s, over 180 cm tall, with thin-lidded single or double eyelids (basically, heavy-looking eyes are a no), a sharp nose, short black hair, no piercings, and a slim build. A small, uncircumcised penis is also a dealbreaker. And of course, having an income is a given.
Unless a man looks roughly like this, I can’t see him as a romantic prospect in the first place. So naturally, papa—and about 90% of the men around me—are outside my dating pool. Most of them are in the 170-cm range, after all.
That’s my type, but I can’t tell papa when he asks because I’m afraid he’d be put off. If I told him, he’d realize that I don’t see him as a man.
My current boyfriend and the one before him were both like that.
What do you think of women with high standards? Papa isn’t my boyfriend or anything, so I don’t judge him by his appearance at all!
I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
What’s done is done, and this is this. That’s all there is to it.
Still, I’m doing my best to make you think, “Well, this isn’t so bad either.”
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I’m Aya, a female member.
For some reason, I often end up dating tall guys—my current boyfriend is 183 cm, too. I care more about height than looks, so I’m not particularly picky about hairstyles or eyes. Of course, my current boyfriend is only handsome in terms of his overall vibe, but I have no complaints.
I feel like it’s probably better not to say overly blunt things to men. They might think, “You’ve got some nerve saying that,” and end up disliking you.
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I’m Ayase Nana ♡
There’s nothing wrong with saying, “I like kind people and those who work hard at their jobs,” is there?
Personally, I dislike people who don’t achieve anything at work, just muddle along, and make no effort to improve.
Questioner, you’re looking for someone whose appearance is ideal, right? What about yourself?
Are you incredibly gorgeous yourself—like Meisa Kuroki, Kou Shibasaki, or the woman who says, “I never fail” (lol)?
Besides, people who are only attractive on the outside are boring. I’m very drawn to people with wonderful personalities—I love them too.
You should never state your ideal type like that. People will just think, “Is this girl stupid?”
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This answer is exactly right, as Makeotoko-san says.
A beautiful woman with real substance doesn’t place much importance on being called beautiful. As a result, she also focuses more on a man’s inner qualities.
That doesn’t mean she prefers men who aren’t attractive—their looks are simply secondary...
I guess the person asking this question is still pretty immature.
Akari
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I’m about to say something incredibly rude m(｡>__<｡)m
I get the feeling that maybe you’re only moderately attractive.
Women who are exceptionally beautiful don’t seem to judge men based on their looks.
I have three incredibly beautiful women in monthly arrangements, and when I look at photos of their ex-boyfriends, not a single one of them is handsome.
When you’re constantly being confessed to and asked out by men, I think the things you look for in a man become different from what an ordinarily attractive woman looks for.
That said, being tall does seem to be important. Apparently, that’s the one thing they won’t compromise on, so this short, chubby, balding guy can only laugh wryly.
A loser guy
P.S. Thank you, Akari m(｡>__<｡)m
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I’m in Seattle.
Everything is correct as things stand.
If you’re as popular as you are, naturally you deserve a man like that. Let’s keep it a secret from the ATM.
One more piece of unsolicited advice from an old man: when choosing a marriage partner, add “someone who won’t emotionally abuse you” to the list. Strong men don’t seem very kind.
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