Tips Dec 13, 2021 09:11

Women are beautiful, and by society’s usual standards, they’re considered even more beautiful when they’re young. After all, the skin of a woman in her teens or twenties is completely different from that of a woman in her thirties. Young women are even regarded as beautiful and sacred beings in some religions. It’s natural to feel sexually aroused by such beautiful beings, but thinking that you might be able to date one, that she might love you too, or that she meets you because she likes you is incredibly misguided, isn’t it?

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For women, the money they receive through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is about how much it can reduce their discomfort. If the relationship with a papa (a male supporter) has reached the level of a common-law marriage, then I suppose it’s close to a romantic relationship and something different. But if you’re simply having sex, then you’re just paying the woman to put up with it. Love nurtured with a papa usually doesn’t exist, so I wish you’d stop seeking love from these women. Why do you get the wrong idea? Why do men like you—middle-aged, paunchy, short, and with money as your only redeeming quality—convince yourselves that a beautiful woman young enough to be your daughter, and who could attract plenty of men her own age, would fall for you? I could understand it if you’d always been popular since your school days. But in every generation, the men who are consistently popular are good-looking. You papas definitely don’t look like that. It’s painfully obvious that you weren’t popular when you were students. So why do you still get the wrong idea??? Do you become delusional because girls blinded by money flatter you out of politeness? From a 20-year-old woman who was told by a 56-year-old man at a dating club, “Think of me as your boyfriend♡ If your friends ask whether you have a boyfriend, you have to say yes, okay?♡”
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
This is columnist Fuu. Even if the questioner desperately vents and disses them here, girls who know how to make money skillfully play those papas like a fiddle, collect their allowance, and find good papas(笑) The moment a papa finds out even a little about what the questioner really thinks, she’ll lose that good papa. It’s a vicious cycle where all the questioner is left with are crappy papas like these.
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フラグメーカー
フラグメーカー Male Column
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. A papa (a male supporter) who gets carried away is easy to deal with. If anything, that’s lucky for you. He’s clearly lacking experience.
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
> If you’ve been popular with women ever since your school days That should be a requirement for men joining a dating club. If they’re not that kind of man and woman, it wouldn’t be fun spending time together anyway. Paper Airplane
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ジョー・ルビコン
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🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
This is Joe. Posts like this seem to pop up regularly. For an unpopular old guy like Joe—an ordinary rich guy who can’t even claim that money is his only redeeming quality—they’re a good reminder. I don’t mean that sarcastically; first of all, thank you. That said, what I don’t quite understand is the mentality behind making a post like this. There must be several reasons or motives, but is it ultimately guilt over spreading your legs for an old man that makes you do it? I’d like to ask sometime, if I get the chance. Basically, I think the questioner’s understanding is correct. At least, I’d like to think Joe understands it well. That’s why I leave whenever I sense that the other person is disgusted. So there are only a few Universe girls I’m still seeing regularly. Of course, the fact that money is involved is a given, but even so, I feel we’ve been able to have reasonably fulfilling relationships. Also, she isn’t a Universe girl, but I’m currently practically living with a woman more than two 12-year cycles younger than me. To be honest, I don’t want to live together, but she more or less moved herself in. What I’m trying to say is that even with an unimpressive old guy like Joe, inexplicable chemistry can sometimes happen, and strange things can come of it. Since you’re 20, I’m sure you find that hard to believe. But unexpected things will happen to you too—quite often, without a doubt. Whether they’ll be good or bad, I can’t say, but at the very least, try to develop abilities besides spreading your legs. Good luck!
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Work out every day and get yourself into seriously ripped shape. Build up enough stamina to run 10 kilometers at a pace of under six minutes per kilometer. *If you’re a man, under five minutes per kilometer.* If you do that, your mental health issues will ease up, and that urge to trash-talk other people will disappear. —A sore loser
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. Although it’s phrased as a question, the main purpose seems to be making a statement, doesn’t it? I think there are many different forms of love and many kinds of boyfriends. I believe it’s possible for a woman to love you as her papa (a male supporter).
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