Tips Dec 13, 2021 08:21

How should I deal with a P who keeps asking me to hold hands or link arms?

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Even just walking beside each other makes it obvious to anyone who notices that something is going on, so why does he openly ask me to hold hands? I often see papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) couples around town, and even just seeing them walk side by side makes me feel so uncomfortable that I want to look away. I’m sure people see me the same way. It’s something you’d naturally want to hide as much as possible—that you’re the kind of woman who can be with some grimy old man like him. How can I explain that to him so he understands? He’s really persistent.
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I’m Nana Ayase☆ Please tell the gentleman, “Not right now. If someone sees us and we can’t meet anymore, you’d be lonely, wouldn’t you…?”
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
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I’d like to say that even walking around town with my monthly arrangement partner is out of the question (it would be unfair to her), so holding hands is absolutely unthinkable... But my former ace, whom I’ve gotten back together with, is a very young aspiring celebrity, and she actually links arms with me even in conspicuous places. Do you think I should pull my arm away...? One way or another, I’m just too happy about it m(。>__<。)m A loser of a man
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だて◎ゆめ
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. Haha(笑) That’s a good question(笑) Just do it somewhere out of sight(笑)
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カズ
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I’m Kazu, a male member. That’s probably just the kind of humiliation play he’s into. I think it’s nearly impossible to change someone’s preferences. The best approach would be to cut ties with men like that and date men who don’t say those things.
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