I often see on this Q&A site that men don’t want presents from women. Does that mean they aren’t happy to receive them?
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It’s not as though they dislike the women—they’re the ones making offers and choosing to meet them, right?
Does that mean they only see them as a way to satisfy their sexual desires, so they don’t want anything other than their bodies?
I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this one too.
> Wouldn’t you be happy about it?
I think I’d be happy that they went to the trouble.
So, rather than what the gift actually is, I feel that I’d appreciate more the thought they put into choosing it, whatever it may be.
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It’s Joe.
For me, the thought behind a gift is what matters, so I’m happy with anything I receive. Even if I already own it, somehow the one I have breaks two days before I’m given the new one (seriously!), so I’ve never had a problem being happy with a gift.
By the way, the most touching gift I’ve ever received was a birthday message card I got on the flight to Paris. It was from my daughter, though 😂 Naturally, I went all out on her souvenir 😂
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I appreciate the thought, but gifts can be complicated, so I’d rather not receive anything. Besides, I’ve usually already bought whatever I want.
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“Returning the favor with a gift”
I’d love it if that were absolutely unnecessary, but realistically, that’s not how it works. Gifts put pressure on your wallet.
You have to be prepared to spend at least ten times the value, after all.
If you receive a ¥20,000 gift, the minimum return gift would be ¥200,000. And I mean minimum. The absolute minimum.
—A Loser Guy
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I’m Dai, a male member.
It’s not that I see women only as sexual objects or that I’m uninterested in anything besides their bodies.
I want to get close to a woman and sleep with her. Sex without feelings isn’t enjoyable.
But if we become close enough for her to give me a present, I start to feel wary that we may be getting too close.
And if it’s just a gift she bought with money, I feel like it ultimately came out of part of her allowance, so I don’t find it that meaningful.
Personally, I’d be happier if she baked a cake and brought it along so we could eat it together, for example.
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