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I’m about to have an adult relationship (intimate) with someone for the first time, but for some reason he says it should involve an overnight stay at a hotel on a trip or at my papa’s apartment.

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Wouldn’t it make more sense to keep the first time to a day trip? This man kisses me against walls in the corners of restaurants or in back alleys. He goes on for a long time. As long as no one comes by, he really doesn’t stop. Since he takes this long just with kissing, I can’t help wondering how many hours I’d be expected to spend with him if we stayed overnight, and it’s hard to bring myself to go through with it... How can I avoid staying overnight at his apartment or going on a trip, and leave the hotel as soon as possible? My papa, who’s nearly 60, seems to really like cuddling and being affectionate...
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茉莉花
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For now, it’s probably best to avoid apartments, at least. Marika
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あかり
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You’re really putting up with a lot. In the corner of some establishment, acting like a lovesick fool? Hanging around back alleys—aren’t you ashamed? You probably don’t have much of a social standing anyway… People will see you the same way, so you should quit while you can—for your own sake… Just one thing to say: Disgusting… Akari
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m in Seattle. If he’s giving me 10,000 yen, I’ll put up with it. If it’s just the standard amount, he’s officially a shitty papa.
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
If you don’t feel anything when kissing him, it would probably be best to break things off if you can. If kissing him doesn’t make you feel attracted or turned on, he’s probably bad at caressing too, and you’ll just have to keep enduring it while things drag on and on. If he kisses for a long time, there’s a very good chance he’s self-centered, bad at caressing, poor at bringing women to orgasm, and not very observant. The only way to leave the hotel quickly would be to train yourself to reach orgasm quickly, even within a short time. —Paper Airplane
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. I don’t think staying overnight on the very first meeting is appropriate. Tell him, “If we’re going to stay overnight, I’d like us to get to know each other better first.” The papa’s apartment is probably a private place he uses instead of a hotel, so it really depends on how you feel about it. I don’t think being fond of kissing necessarily means he’ll make the whole thing last longer. His foreplay probably will, though… If you dislike foreplay, it might be better to end things with him. But if he’s good at kissing, he must be absolutely amazing at foreplay.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
A long “Magikarp kiss” even though you didn’t have an adult relationship… That’s literally hell on earth… And staying overnight on the very first meeting, too… When staying overnight, it’s only natural that I wouldn’t do anything unless I was paid double. I wouldn’t even let him touch me—not even with one finger, let alone kiss me. The amount of time you’re tied up is already so long. I really feel sorry for you… It would be fine if he were a good papa (a male supporter) with whom you already had an established relationship—in other words, someone guaranteed to continue long-term. What a loser.
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