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I was just at a hotel with my papa (a male supporter). I like him, but he doesn’t seem to feel the same way about me. Usually, on weekends, we’d spend two hours at a hotel during the free-time rate, but ever since I started showing my feelings so openly, it feels like he’s been keeping me at arm’s length. When I ask him to stroke my head or kiss me, he does, but we could only go partway with the adult relationship (intimate) because he lost his erection. So, we mostly talked at the hotel—about his work, my studies, my part-time job, and so on. He has a side business and is extremely busy with work, but he still made time to see me between work commitments today. He said that once he got home, he would finish up some work and go straight to sleep. I want to send him a message before he gets home to somehow recover from this disadvantaged position. Is there anything I could say? Sorry for the rambling—I’m panicking. Note: I’m the person who asked this question: https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/8451. In that question, I said that there was no exchange of money between us, but for some reason, he recently started giving me an allowance voluntarily. I’m sure that’s probably another way for him to keep me at arm’s length.

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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. Aya is absolutely right.

Answer 2

I think having a side job actually means you’re not that busy and have plenty of free time to yourself. Paper Airplane

Answer 3

I’m Dai, a male member. Do you understand the importance of give-and-take? You’re pushing too hard, which is why the man is pulling away. It’s also important to keep a certain distance.

Answer 4

I’m Aya, a female member. Why not keep it brief and a little casual, with a message like, “Thanks for today. Good work! See you again”? If you come on too strong, I feel like it could make things even more awkward.

Answer 5

I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. I don’t think it’s a good idea to keep messaging her too persistently. A relationship should benefit both the man and the woman. Something along the lines of: “I had a great time on our date today. I know work is tough, but hang in there. Let’s meet again sometime.” should be fine. I think it’s best to build a relationship while maintaining a certain amount of distance from each other. It’s better not to force yourself to get too close. Marriage also depends on fate.

Answer 6

This is Seattle. “Marry me—I’ll fill out the divorce papers at the same time. If you don’t like it, we can get divorced after six months.” No, that’s not right. “I’ll fix everything that’s wrong with me, so please don’t leave me.” Is that more bittersweet? I’d be happy to hear it, though. No one’s ever said anything like that to me. Losing his erection is probably due to a lack of affection or doing the same thing every time, so I’d like to change up the way we have sex. Is there any unusual kind of play you’d like to try? Cosplay?

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