I have a papa (a male supporter) I see regularly for dinner and a hotel. We always meet at 5 p.m., but I usually eat dinner much later, so I’m not hungry. Also, he always takes me to cheap izakaya-type places, so I think it would be better to skip dinner and go straight to the hotel.
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How do you think he would feel if I suggested that, from now on, we meet at the hotel only?
I’m Aya, a female member.
Even if you go straight to the hotel, skipping dinner can make it feel too much like prostitution. Why not make a cute request like, “I’d love to pick up some different foods at the department store basement and eat them at the hotel! I’m not hungry enough to eat at a restaurant, and I’d feel bad leaving food behind ＞＜”
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I have a feeling he might go along with a hotel-only arrangement if you suggest it.
Since he chooses inexpensive izakayas, I imagine he doesn’t want to spend much on meals.
I hope you receive an offer from a good papa (a male supporter) who enjoys having proper meals together—someone other than this papa.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it, as long as you don’t feel that going straight to a hotel makes it seem like prostitution.
But if your true feelings are that you don’t want to go to an inexpensive izakaya, then you and that papa are two of a kind.
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Going straight to a hotel makes it feel like a private escort service…
If being together is uncomfortable, just say so and keep it to the hotel.
If you enjoy spending time together, find and reserve a restaurant you’d like to try. You can have dinner either before or after the hotel.
—Paper Airplane
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here—I’ll answer too.
> I usually eat dinner later, so I’m not hungry.
Just tell him that and suggest going straight to a hotel.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
It would depend on the nature of your relationship with her, but if she explained that it was still early and she wasn’t hungry, I don’t think I’d take it badly.
I’ve never taken a woman to a cheap izakaya, but I think it’s probably best not to mention that.
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