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Dec 11, 2021 08:21
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I looked through some previous answers and thought it might be best to tell him that my period started, exchange contact information, and arrange another date for later. Would this be the best way to phrase it?
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🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
With a C-type arrangement, it’s difficult—especially since that’s almost unheard of to begin with…
The man may only show up because he feels obligated…
Maybe it’s best to accept that it simply wasn’t meant to be…
—Kamihikōki
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the president’s office, and I’ll answer this as well.
My answer is basically the same as Mac’s.
First, contact the branch and say, “I suddenly got my period. Could you let the man know?”
They’ll ask whether you’re feeling too unwell to go out for a meal, so I think it’s fine to answer honestly.
In most cases, you’ll say that you’re still able to go for a meal, and the club will probably tell you that they can’t pass that information on to the man.
This may seem pointless at first, but depending on the circumstances, they might tell him something like, “It seems she isn’t feeling very well today.”
I’m not sure what the point of that is, but the man may figure it out from there.
And even if the club doesn’t contact him, if he says during the date, “Why didn’t you tell me about this?” you can respond, “I did tell the club, though…”
Also, even if he doesn’t ask anything, he may mistakenly think you turned him down because of your period. So I think it’s a good idea to say something like, “I’ll be fine next time,” to avoid any misunderstanding.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member who’s not very good at this.
“I was really looking forward to our date tomorrow, but unfortunately, tomorrow happens to be a day when it would be physically difficult for me to do anything ‘after’ the meal. I’m very sorry m(。>__<。)m
If it’s dinner only, I’d of course still love to meet as planned. However, if we hit it off and you’d like to do something after dinner as well, I’d really appreciate it if we could reschedule. Any day from a week later onward works for me m(。>__<。)m”
With wording like this, the Universe staff should probably be able to mediate.
After all, you might end up going to a café after the meal.
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
This is Joe.
As Mac says, it seems to be a no-no to tell men about your period. That said, there are plenty of exceptions—I’ve been informed in advance three times myself, although they used very euphemistic wording.
I agree with Mac, but one thing you can do is talk to the staff about it, even if it’s a long shot.