I’m the “loser guy” who decided to spend Christmas Eve with my former ace.
Early on, I promised my ace that I wouldn’t see her on Christmas Eve or on her birthday, since I didn’t want to put any unnecessary pressure on her as my papa. Since I was free on Christmas Eve, I decided to meet my former ace instead.
So I’ll be spending Christmas Eve with my former ace. I’ve told her that I don’t have any other female partners, but I actually have about ten. m(｡>__<｡)m
My ace might be seeing a boyfriend she supposedly doesn’t have, and my former ace may have another papa.
What I’m trying to say is that there’s probably no such thing as truth in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
That said, I think Aya’s handsome older papa is probably only seeing Aya. It’s just a gut feeling, but I’m almost certain. That passcode is incredible…
The only one of my monthly arrangements who seems not to have another papa or a boyfriend is my semi-ace. She asks for unprotected sex and finishing inside her every time, so I figure that must be the case.
And I have a feeling that, even 20 years from now, my semi-ace will be the only one I’m still meeting and sleeping with. If I were to live with anyone, it would probably be her.
Make them feel confident that they’re the only one.
I think that’s important—and the key to a good papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). For both men and women…
When you make someone feel that way, they’re in a much better mood, too. More than anything, it makes both of you feel comfortable.
Paper Airplane
I’m Aya, a female member.
At first, we only met two or three times a month, and I think he had several other regular women as well. He’s extremely popular, so I imagine he also had one-night stands with hostesses.
But for some reason, I had a gut feeling from the very beginning that “this man will eventually make me his number one.” Through our conversations, I realized that apparently no one with a personality like mine had ever been around him before. So I became confident that, if I could earn his trust, I could become his number one. Sorry, that sounds creepy. I’ve had the same intuition by the second date with all my generous (well-paying) papas so far.
As we continued our relationship, he started inviting me on overseas trips to mark milestones in his work, becoming possessive toward me on the assumption that we were seeing each other exclusively, telling me his schedule every day, giving me such expensive gifts that I found it hard to believe he gave the same kinds of things to multiple women, introducing me to his subordinates, and even arranging credit cards and an apartment for me. At this point, I trust him. If he had done all of this for other women too, I’d honestly be impressed.
He’s given me his phone passcode, so I occasionally check it (sorry, I know that’s creepy), but so far it doesn’t seem like there are any other women.
If there were, I think I’d quietly shift my focus toward another papa.
